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Pure altruism does it exist?
Pure altruism is giving without regard to reward or the benefits of recognition.
I was wandering through an old thread and was surprized the debate didnt come up, as it is always an interesting one. So does it exist ? If so give an example of a situation in in which pure altruism is displayed. |
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The day after I was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, four years ago when I was thirty nine, someone I hardly knew gave me a cheque for a thousand pounds. They said I could do what I liked with it, and I couldn't refuse it, as they would be offended.
I did of course refuse the money, but when they insisted, I used the money on acupuncture treatment, which greatly helped the pain in my muscles. Incidentally, the acupuncurist would only take half the normal fee, which with weekly treatments, over two years, was quite a considerable discount. I'll never forget this kindness, and when people say that the world today is a worse place than in days gone by, they are wrong. There are still a lot of very good people, who perform acts of kindness without seeking reward. |
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Like Rindi you find out who your friends are when your health fails. On the home front my companion for the last nineteen years has always been there from me, epecially when I've been in a poor way. As for outside the family, they always say that people have very few friends and plenty of acquaintances, which is all so true. for the past 10 or so years I have been unable to go out much in winter, mainly because I don't have the flue Jab as I'm allergic to it, but I have had two mates who pop round to see me most weeks and I only have to pick the phone up if I need to and they'll be there. those mates are Tom Hindle and Brian Walmsley, it sure makes you feel the everything in the word s not all bad
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I promised this person not to tell anyone what they did for me, and I haven't. Well not really, as I've given no clues as to their identity. |
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I think pure altruism is more alive than 'unpure' to be honest Keetah.
Lots of people have done lovely things for me, and not mainly money wise, and definitely for no reward or recognition. Perhaps their only reward was seeing me well and happy, which is what I like to think. Myself, I hope, have done helpful things for people for which I require no return... Ok, has made me feel a little better about myself if that is the reward, but not shouted it from the housetops. Yes, I think it is still in the majority. Don't wish to mention any particular instances, as these people would be embarrased by public praise, as obviously Garinda's little helper. |
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She'd kill me for posting this, but...
when I was about eight, an old lady who ran a sweet shop in Ossy, had her windows put through. The lady wasn't personally known to us, but my mum took her in a big bunch of flowers, and I remember thinking, wow, what a nice person my mum is. I've met other people who my mum has done things for. A girl who she gave some pans to when she had nothing, and that she never forgot. What I'm trying to say is my mum is nothing special, though she obviously is to her nearest and dearest, but very often it is the smallest act of kindness, especially if you're down and feeling vunerable, that means so much. |
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I'm sure I've read something about a bloke born in Bethlehem just over 2000 years ago. Does he qualify as an altruist?
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some of the posts about good deeds are lovely - real kindness but i wouldnt say it is truley pure altruism
if somebody is hurt or sad it is a human instinct to do something because if we dont we think many things such as bad luck befaling us - or karma coming back tenfold or just guilt. There is also the fear i think that if we dont do anything and the situation gets worse we will always be asking ourselves - why didnt i do more ? i think it is this drive a lot of the time that makes us act upon our impulse to help but it doesnt make it true altruism even if we arent particularly getting rewarded for a good deed doing the deed stops us having from feeling bad. would the person who gave you a cheque have placed it on the floor and walked away without even konwing if you had picked it up ? or did they have to know that it was you who had personally taken possession of it ? |
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I sorta' understand what you are saying Keetah, like I said the satisfaction I get from giving (apart from natural instincts to family) is the reward to my own self-esteem.
Suppose I would have to stand in front of complete strangers to take a load of machine gun fire to be a pure altruist (if any such word). Or donate any monies anonymously. Is this what you mean ? |
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It's really getting into the semantics of the term, as to what is altruism. I'm not a philospher, but I suppose all of us are ultimately self serving, because we need to care for ourselves first in order to survive, and before we can even think of helping others. Are there people who act without the need for praise or recognition, either physically or spiritually, yes, in my opinion. |
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