MY 'mad friday'
 

Tonight didn't quite end up how I expected it and I felt the most vulnerable I've felt in a while but ultimately ended up enjoying myself, so thank you to all the accywebbers who were so hospitable to me tonight and those who gave me something to think about, it made me realise that no matter how hard I work I can't escape what I was born into and I can't change who I am just by wasting a couple of grand on an education. Let it be said though that I'll always contend it and stand my principles even if they contradict the existence that I have been born into. Nothing wrong with a bit of bite and change here and there and I'm more than willing to fight back. I'm only human and sometimes I break just like everyone else, I just have to keep getting up and giving all I've got.

Thank you for being such a pleasure and thank you to anne and mick for my first and only xmas card this year, god bless you both.

Merry xmas everyone!

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Want a pair of boxing gloves for crimbo?

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Nope but I am going to start a petition for a widespread cull of all the idiots in accrington who think things are different than they actually are.

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If you do get the cull I am sure the blood bank would be a friend for life with all the donations. ;):D

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Care to explain for all us lot who missed out? :D

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I'm too tired right now and it would only start a very personal discussion that I'd rather be kept confined to the evening so not really.

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So why comment on such and keep us all guessing? :D:confused:

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Lets just say that the energy crisis would be averted. :D

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Thanking the members who I did meet tonight of course. The others can only be jealous for not being there to witness the events and perhaps be told via PM.

I'd like the photographs PM'd to me too please and they can be posted in the galleries if anyone chooses to put them there!

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Jeez another "me thread" and don't forget anybody that took pics you need permission to post them:eek:

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:D:D:D:D:D

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For once bernadette, I don't care what you say, because I met very nice people tonight from accyweb who now know exactly what I am like in person and they know my thanks is sincere.

Shame you couldn't have been there to meet me but it doesn't matter, because my point has been made now and I don't have to bother defending myself to you.

And obviously I've just given people permission to put up pictures of me and I'm sure most of the other people with me tonight will be more than happy to share the happy evening with everyone :) and I did say PM them to me.

Trouble maker, to put it nicely *pointing finger*

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Whatever hun nice that you think your permission is needed but hey ho we can't all be so important as to need to have a thread and grant permission for pics to be posted. How nice to be so very important.

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If you read properly I asked for them to be PM'd to me, so there is no issue, seen as they are of ME after all. It isn't like you were though so I don't see why it matters to you whether pictures of myself are sent to me anyway.

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Bernie, suggest we butt out of her "me" thread, lol. We are just feeding her. :D She couldn't post in the Xmas meet one like everyone else does. Has to post one about her.

doesn't want to post any details after she gives us snippets, so as to make herself seem fascinating maybe?

Pity you can't come accross as on here as "nice" blazey isn't it?

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I thought suicide was illegal.:hehetable

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[quote=blazey;661490]realise that no matter how hard I work I can't escape what I was born into and I can't change who I am just by wasting a couple of grand on an education. uote]

No reason to escape what you were born into .. what's wrong with that anyway ? Just a matter of going up another step of the ladder .. which you are sensibly taking advantage of.

You a lovely girl Blazey, as I discovered tonight. x

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This may come as a shock but you and Bernadette don't exactly come across as "nice" here. You've jumped down Blazey's throat for no reason whatsoever. Firstly, if all the 'me' threads (as you call them) were taken down from AccyWeb then there wouldn't be much left. It's the personal anecdotes and stories that keep this site as warm and friendly as it is. Secondly, Blazey has all the right in the world not to post every detail of tonights events to people who are only interested in gossip.
There's some real nasty people around.

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Well i for one was very glad and surprised that blazey turned up at the meet it was really good to meet her at last and we had a very nice chat.
she is really a nice girl thanks for your company tonight Blazey

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Thank-you for coming Blazey. I enjoyed the night, although my head enjoys it a little less this morning.

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I wonder why? I thought it was fun and to put a face to the name helps.

No hangover no sore head, which at once upon a time would have made me a tad envious. Must be getting old. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

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I had a lovely night :) Unlike Andrew I don't have a sore head and I don't regret coming to the meeting and will surely be trying to make it to more in the future.

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All that is needed is a hang over cure for Andrew. :D Might I suggest a hair of the dog. ;)

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I can think of something that cure headaches if he wants...

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Well he might need it. :D Could have been worse though. He might have woken up with his own head but the feeling of having somebody elses body. :eek:

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He could have woken up with graham jones...

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I too was surprised by blazey, I recognised her when she came in, and expected some kind of aggresive, nasty arrogant person, but found she is actually quite the opposite, a really nice girl, and fairly quiet and pleasant, nice to meet you blazey.

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Now that would have been interesting. Neither would live it down. :eek::)

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That would have ruined his Christmas big time:D:p

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I would love to see their faces when they woke up next to each other though.

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Me and a good few of the members to. :D:D:D:D:D:D

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Very briefly - there was a discussion going on between 5 or 6 of us. blazey mentioned some personal information about her and her family relative to the debate. It upset her when other people did not agree with her point of view. That's it really, nothing exciting like you might have been expecting.

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So it was just blazey playing the drama queen was it:D

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It wasn't a case of disagreeing, it was pretty much a case that there is no realistic answer to the problem and I was being personally attacked for something I can't provide a solution to and the most I can possibly do is work hard and ensure the problem doesn't persist. If you think personally blaming someone for the country's economic downfalls is the andrew to your problem then fair play to you, but I would like to think the educated population of the country has much more to say than that.

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Posted via Mobile Deviceyou were not 'personally attacked'. You quite simply did not want to hear what was being said because it placed blame in different place than you wanted . I was gobsmacked when you ran outside, if you react like that in a simple debate then i don't fancy your chances in a court of law.

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have i missed something in the first post? I thought Blazey was being nice??

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You say it like I was wrong, but to be wrong I would have to be the one personally liable to solve the problem. I'm not a politician and I certainly wont be put in a situation in a court where I am held to be the one responsible for solving poverty in Britain.

And if I ever was, I doubt anyone is going to suggest I march individuals to the estate agents or the job centre. It is very naive to think it is as simple as that anyway, I just find it frustrating when not only am I arguing with irrational people but I'm having to defend something I can only do so much to change.

Anyway, like I said, I enjoyed the evening and I know that the people I met appreciated my company and it was very nice to meet some more accywebbers today and I don't think ANYBODY who has met me these past two days will say I'm a horrible person or that I deserved having to defend myself to three grown adults who should be bigger than playground bullies whilst having a camera in my face.

If I'm seen to be in the wrong by all the people witnessing the conversation then fine, but I don't believe that to be the case. I'm up to my eyes with uni work at the moment and I made time to come and finally meet people in person and I'm glad I did. I suppose it is easier to blame the 19yr old for all the problems in the world but at least I'm aiming towards a career and doing something with my life, what more do you want me to do!?

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Thank you for being such a pleasure and thank you to anne and mick for my first and only xmas card this year, god bless you both.


Awww your ever sooo welcome Hun. It was lovely to meet you at last. glad you enjoyed your-self.

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your ever sooo welcome . It was lovely to meet you at last. glad you enjoyed your-self.[/quote]

It was well worth meeting the people who I knew would be nice and worth speaking to. It actually made me proud on some levels to be from accrington.

Sadly I think there is always something that overshadows accrington and I sense it more and more each time I come home. Businesses aren't bothering to invest in the town, more buildings are becoming derilict and we seem to be letting the council throw money at stupid things like an 'eco station'. Why would anyone even want to come to accrington any more? There is nothing here.

I'm just glad I live in Oswaldtwistle but it seems to be going in the same direction recently. I dread the next holidays because I've no idea what will be gone next. Except from Woolworths...

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sorry i missed meeting ya blaze, as fer accy the people make up fer what its lost.;)

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Some do, but when they all reach their expiry date, who do you think they're going to be replaced with? Because the smart people certainly wont stick around.

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Is 'andrew' your downfall?:eek::D

Blimey, heated debates, storming out?

At every meet I've been to the most burning issue was whose round it was next.:D

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Another sweeping, and wrong, generalisation.

Perhaps you just don't know the right people in this area.;)

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"mad friday" has now turned into sad sunday.. is this you blog Blazey?...and I do find your sig offensive!!

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She's done Hitler, the Conservatives, Graham Jones, as well as Labour.

She'll probably be supporting My Little Pony or Chairman Mao next week.:rolleyes:

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There is a difference between finding something fascinating and supporting something. I study contradictary subjects all the time which find fascinating and learn to argue for both of them.

As for finding my signature offensive, please feel free to report it.

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Well..really to be honest... it means nothing to me.. OOH Vienna.

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Its not that its offensive blazey its just out of date, the rose has now a broken stem and has withered:rolleyes:

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Is that why she changed from the Conservative's torch too, because as a direct result of privatisation the bills were so high that their flame went out?:rolleyes:

:D

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No we just went more Greener Rindi, :rolleyes::p

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Labour are using their bills to fuel the fire. It's nice and warm at least. :p My signature has said Labour for months though, I don't see why it's a point of conversation now.

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Might be jealousy that you are warm. ;) :) Either that or that bumbling guy from the Kingdom of Fife might be thinking of an election after the new year. :D

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Much on the mind? ;)

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Is this pick on Blazey week?

Maybe i should come to the meets with blazey......then ya could pick on me too:D

Bring it on:mosher::mosher:


;)

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Only if the claws stay sheathed. Big cats claws are bad for people. :p:D

Now :dogrun: before its :hesoff:

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Trying to bite my lip here as did all turn out good in the end, but 'storming out' is not quite the correct description.
She was being bullied with red-faced comments and finger pointing and on the defensive from attack, so she withdrew for a while to consolidate her strategy ... :tongueout

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wish i'd have stayed now, nowt interesting ever goes on when i'm there

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who stormed out where?, when?, why?


LOL, im a nosy cow:rolleyes:

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Thats not quite true Kate.

She was trying to be a little controversal like she is online. However when doing it online she has time to think and plan her response. Face to face she could not handle it and did one.

I don't want to explain as it is personal but she was on a iffy one debating that particular topic with the people she was.

Maybe she would like to start the debate on thread and we can see what others think.

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in the past ........

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I agree....If the lass had a problem with the situation and thought she was being put under pressure she has every right to take stage left.
Too many people think they they have a right to point the finger and bully members on here for their views. I am not keen on the Labour theme but appreciate what she is saying....Turncoat. :)
If you corner a rat it will bite you, and I don't mean that in any way shape or form refering to Blazey.
I won't bite my lip Kate, some of our so called intelegencia who score points for fun from their 'Hoppoes' in order to gain cow pats that's fine by me.
Don't bite your lip it can be painful. ;)

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Lol.

Heated 'debates', finger pointing, red faces, leaving the stage?

It sounds like the Jeremy Kyle Show!

I'm really miffed I missed it now!

I went to every meet for about two years, and nothing this exciting ever happened...mind you we didn't talk about anything serious, we just had a laugh.

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well if serious was on the menu, i aint as miffed about my absence.:tongueout

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The meets I sort of remember consist of drinking beer out of massive vases, and laying in a coffin.:D

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Well the ones I managed to get to I barely remember leaving:D

Something to do with the alcohol that I kept getting plyed with me thinks lol;):D:D:D

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I can happily say I never spoke one sensible word at the twenty odd meets I've been to.:D

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I spoke a few sensible words ... dont do politics its against my religion ... and being told by someone that was ballcocks ... and the laughing so much at mick and katex ... katex not knowing what was going on ... and mick's eyes all lit up ... and then he wanted me to bounce on his knee just like i did with neils .. i was a bit gentler with mick .. you know the age thing ....

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Micks eyes always light up after a few pints....lmao!!!!!
Think its thought of getting the next one that does it :D

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Not the way they did on friday night with katex ........ that was a different lighting up .. anne will agree ... she was laughing just as much as me and spug and len ....

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Oh hek, like you with the Absinthe Shill, am never going to live down whatever I did that caused you lot so much merriment .. :eek:

No matter what has been said on this thread, was an excellent night, and look forward to the next one.

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katex i think everyone will forget yours a damn sight quicker than mine ...:D:D:D

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Well that just depends what it is she did jen;)
Do we have pics ? have we got evidence that Kate left with all clothes intact:eek::eek: and all bits and bobs tucked away ?:p

Oh i do wish I d have been there now:alright::alright:

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wrong jen , i have never dogged ya about the absinthe, but when i get the full S.P. on kate.:D

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Wish it was on a video it would have been great. Add to that Katex didnt catch on quickly along with a touch more hilarity and instant comments I was in stitches. :D

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well what do ya expect spug? a woman catching on.:hidewall:

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Dont think the wall will save you cashy. :hesoff:

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Well i had a great night ...............................Thankyou Katex:D
By the way i will look after your bag more often :D:hidewall:

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Somehow you walking round with a handbag wouldnt look right. Even worse you might bring one for you. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

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If what happened at the meet is going to happed again i dont mind

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In my experience Mick, women don't carry bags, they're more like suitcases:D

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Are we saying that katex needs glasses, due to not being able to see the difference between one 'bag' and another? :D Or maybe eyes in the back of her head would be better, so she can see what she actually gets a handfull of when reaching behind! :eek:

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Nobody gets upset about views that are just for the sake of being controversial.

I strongly believe that I shouldn't be held responsible for the problem we were discussing but I agree that my point was more defensive than entirely reasonable and as a past right winger you would know that on a general level I would agree with what you were saying but I can only fight my own battle and that takes enough energy as it is, I can't pressure people into fighting their battles as well because I simply don't have the time and energy to do that.

I work with kids and encourage them to get an education. I've worked with Moorhead before it became Accrington Academy and I've worked with Rhyddings so chances are I may have worked with the children of some accywebbers. I see this as my bit of influence on the next generation but at the end of the day they will all go out and make their own choices and their own mistakes. I don't think it is my place to shape the older generation and I'm pretty sure I've been told that many a time on this forum.

I think it should be left at that.

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Whoops, sorry Blazey, this has turned into a Katex thread now, extremely embarrased... :o

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Is it any wonder hun... I still cant believe your innocence:D surely you must have some idea... cmon tell !!!!! im dying to know.hahahaha

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I can't think of anything Katex did but then I didn't see her do all these other things she has admitted so she could have done anything!

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And there was me thinking kate was a paragon of virtue:D

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No one was holding you responsible and like I said it was a subject too close to your heart.

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Lesbianism?

Or is she back on the straight and narrow...this week?

:D

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pmsfl
oh Gary, if i could give you some right now i would love, i appear to have given too much in the last 24 hours though :D

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Nothing new there then :p:D

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Someone got laid in a coffin:eek: Jeez, you guys sure know how to party:theband: Fun stuff ...

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Gives a whole new meaning to having a stiff one :D

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Well it :signntme: because I am a good little boy :angel: when out now. :thumbsup: :cheers:

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But Rindy was on about past meets which puts you firmly back in the frame :D

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Well I am reformed then. :jimbo:

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Yeah okay spuggie! ;):D

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I am honest. A reformed character who now avoids causing chaos when out, :D

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Isnt there a pic in the meets photos of the coffin ?
Im sure Ive seen it:confused:

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yes you did there are a few here is the link

valantine meet - Accrington Gallery

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Phew !!!!! thank god for that . for a min I thought I was having a bad dream :eek::eek: Mind you we are talking about Chav and Garinda so maybe it was :p;):D