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Mortgage Less, was me getting my vowels mixed up;)

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Not like you that john:rolleyes::D:D

Ah, so, a bad vowel movement?

Good job I didn't point out in the same post how you furnished us with funished, you would have thought I was getting at you.

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You getting at me Less:eek:God forbit, I leave things like that to M.R.:D

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Hey, don't be cheeky:D

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Thanks Margaret you have given me something to think about to be honest, we do worry about money too much these days but if its something that we both want then we could do it.

It has been interesting reading everyones replies.

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Heth, if he hasn't asked you by the time you're fifty, would you marry me?

I can't offer much excitment.

But we could sit and watch endless re-runs of the X-Factor, and at least have a laugh.

:D

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Good luck hon:alright: ... hope all turns out well with you.

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Yes I would Gary, thanks for asking.:D

Can just picture us now, sat there holding hands with our rings on watching the gang! ;)

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Thank You I appreciate that Eric. :)

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Can I have the film rights:D

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Marriage to me is/was an important step in my life. I have been married twice, divorced once and sadly lost my soulmate four years ago.
My first marriage was entered into rather naively and was doomed to failure, maybe because we were both to young or to differnt in our outlooks on life. But from this marriage and got my two beautiful children and consequently my wonderful grandchildren.
When that marriage ended I vowed never to marry again but never say never as you don't know what's waiting round the corner.
Ian and I did live together for four years and then had twenty years of marriage before sadly he was taken from me. We didn't spend a great deal on the wedding but being married somehow cemented our relationship.
As MargP says all relationships take a lot of hard work, have ups and downs but ultimately it is the working through problems together that makes us who we are IMHO.

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I consider that getting married is the ultimate statement and consummate act that one could be privileged to make.
I was married for 12 days short of 48 years and I shall give the same vows and commitment again, hopefully early in the New Year. Being pragmatic I cannot expect to enjoy another 47+ years of happiness but we will be totally committed to each other, as we are now, and enjoy the happiness that being married can bring, for however long we have.
Perhaps the lack of stated committment in today's society has had some detrimental effect upon the society that we now experience - be assured that this is not meant to be critical of anyone, each to his/her own chosen way.

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Big stick Kidder, that should get his attention & encourage him a bit. ;) :D

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Can't understand that........He didn't seem stupid when i met him.:confused:;):D