Advice please - Page 2

garinda · 27-08-2010, 20:02

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Originally Posted by Rob249

I know but she has hurt me with all she has said i just want to show her brother the texts she has sent me about his son he will go mad, i think anyone would.

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Originally Posted by Rob249

She would send me texts like I love you so much and my little boy is missing his step daddy, and how much she and her son missed me.

When people you've never met say they love you, along with their 'child', alarm bells should start ringing, that she's a....

N U T T E R !

You're hurt.

Swallow your pride, and just move on.

She really isn't worth spending anymore time worrying about.

Taggy · 27-08-2010, 20:06

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Originally Posted by Rob249

itl put my mind at rest if i see her and on a scale of 1 to 10 what damage would showing her brother and mum the texts, il feel happier doing it

Because bloods thicker than water...they will side with her...and you'll come of worse ..again! Leave it!

Best Regards - Taggy

Rob249 · 27-08-2010, 20:07

I know and I will it would be just nice to humiliate her and make her feel liitle but its just sick really when you think about it.

MargaretR · 27-08-2010, 20:09

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Originally Posted by Rob249

I know and I will it would be just nice to humiliate her and make her feel liitle but its just sick really when you think about it.

There is no guarantee that she will be humiliated - she may just laugh in your face for being such a patsy

shillelagh · 27-08-2010, 20:10

wouldnt go anywhere near ... you dont know nowt about her brother .. what kind of person he is ... shes lied to you all the way through .. so not worth it .... get another sim card change your number, and forget all about her ...

Gordon Booth · 27-08-2010, 20:13

You asked for advice and you've had it 11 times, all saying the same thing. None of it seems to be persuading you to call it a day, cut your losses and move on. Your pride has been hurt but it could have become a lot worse and may do if you go down the path you seem determined to follow. On a scale of 1 to 10 it could be 10.
Put it another way, on a scale of 1 to 10 what GOOD would it do? Move on!

Rob249 · 27-08-2010, 20:13

How can anyone lie about having a kid tho

Margaret Pilkington · 27-08-2010, 20:13

don't even think about humiliating her, it won't help you, or make you feel better.
Humiliating her will achieve nothing. let it go...let her go and find someone who is worthy of you.

MargaretR · 27-08-2010, 20:21

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Originally Posted by Rob249

How can anyone lie about having a kid tho

This brings to mind how my narcisstic ex told me the same thing.
Liars 'confide' some things which might tend to be not favourable to them, in order that you will believe the other seemingly credible advantagous things they relate about themselves.
.....a fantasist is a dangerous psychotic
.....'personality disorder' is a gross understatement

Rob249 · 27-08-2010, 20:29

Makes it worse when she told me how hard the birth was

MargaretR · 27-08-2010, 20:39

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Originally Posted by Rob249

Makes it worse when she told me how hard the birth was

Sorry to be cruel but
..just get a transfer type tattoo with the word 'PATSY' and wear it for a week on your forehead to amuse your friends and so warn them of the dangers of the internet

lancsdave · 27-08-2010, 20:49

So you never met. How do you know it's not a bloke ?

How old are you ? We have to have these conversations with our kids about strangers on the internet

SPUGGIE J · 27-08-2010, 21:05

OI NUMPTY WI NAE BRAIN!!!

Get your head out of the clouds and face reality!!!! She/he is ripping the urine right out of you and like a bloody twally you cant see the wood for the trees. Listen to the people on here their advice is sound!!! If you want to be taken for a mug and end up with a face that looks like it was in a bear battle then go ahead. If you aint willing to listen to people with all their life experience then of you go try and get revenge and get a cactus in the process. If there is one thing about the web is that there are enough spiders out there to take you for everything.

If you aint going to take advice then why did you ask fotr it and opinions???

Grow a set and walk. If you cant do that then reap the wirlwind and the pain!!!

MargaretR · 27-08-2010, 21:08

I think he has a mild dose of Stockholm Syndrome (google if you need to know).
It is a mental delusion where the abused has sympathy for their abuser.

As a former sufferer I know how he feels.

garinda · 27-08-2010, 21:10

You were groomed.

Time to move on, or seek more professional help than we can give.

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