They may always try to appear aloof but some moggies aren't half daft! 


It's when they look at you then as if to say "I meant to do that."



im very sorry to hear about youre cat i had one that had same ilness and had to have him put to sleep but never mind chinup malI'm very sad today as I had to have my cat put down last night. He was 16 years old and very, very ill. His heart and kidney's were failing and he could barely walk.
When I got him as a kitten, he was a bandy legged, scrawny, scaredy cat. He turned into a sleek, butch looking, scaredy cat. I miss him already.
I know how much a part of the family an animal becomes and how sad it is to lose them. You had 16 lovely years of him though and that's the best thing to think about.