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Nope…….you’re all wrong…….I’ve been very busy and I must admit a little bored with the occasional and somewhat false and ill informed personal attacks by a few. However, I’m still here and I will continue to post on what is an excellent site despite occasional let down by a few.
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I'm surprised Doug......I can't remember you ever posting anything that could be construed as aggressive. Don't let the bu***rs grind you down mate!

I look forward to some more of your meaningful posts...which I for one fully enjoy!

Keep going!!!!!!!!!!!
 
OK, for Janet and Bagpuss and anyone else who is interested. You can all me a trouble maker after this if you like and quite frankly I don't give a damn this morning what anybody calls me.

Some time ago Doug sent me some PMs and some of the content was slightly flirty, which happens online and means nothing between people who don't know each other. (Although I am aware of a situation where something similar broke up the marriage of a friend of mine) In one PM he said something which Busman saw and he asked Doug not to say things like that in future. Instead of accepting that it may have been a problem and not acceptable behaviour, Doug sent me a PM with "love and kisses" in and a comment not to tell Busman about the love and kisses. Busman was right here when I read it but I wouldn't have kept it a secret from him anyway. Busman responded directly to Doug and here on the AccyWeb.

Anything else between Doug and Wingy is none of my business.
 
morning doug, nice to see a posting from you, even if its only 1 it is STILL welcome, just as long as your ok? well keep posting, & have a happy christmas.
 
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OK, for Janet and Bagpuss and anyone else who is interested. You can all me a trouble maker after this if you like and quite frankly I don't give a damn this morning what anybody calls me.

Some time ago Doug sent me some PMs and some of the content was slightly flirty, which happens online and means nothing between people who don't know each other. (Although I am aware of a situation where something similar broke up the marriage of a friend of mine) In one PM he said something which Busman saw and he asked Doug not to say things like that in future. Instead of accepting that it may have been a problem and not acceptable behaviour, Doug sent me a PM with "love and kisses" in and a comment not to tell Busman about the love and kisses. Busman was right here when I read it but I wouldn't have kept it a secret from him anyway. Busman responded directly to Doug and here on the AccyWeb.

Anything else between Doug and Wingy is none of my business.
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That's a different kettle of fish Willow.....Most of us know nowt about PM's to others.

But I for one don't like to get too familiar over the internet, and would most certainly never get personal. Maybe a quiet PM reply could sort it out...None of my business..I know.
 
Personal Attack's are NOT allowed in posts
if you must do it then do it through pm's only
as its only between the people involved THANKYOU
 
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I’m somewhat surprised too see this issue raised again, but hey, why not leave the turkey alone and stuff the good will instead.…….I’ve never considered you a trouble maker Willow not now, and not in the past. I recall exchanging pm's on at least five or six occasions and yes I did sign off with xxx on at least two of them. If you where offended!! Then not for the first time in this matter, my apologies. However, apart from being my normal open and warm self I don’t partially recall flirting with you. I have never met you, nor have I ever seen you, But I take you at your word, and again not for the first time. I apologise to you personally for that.

Darby you’re a gent and a star. I look forward to meeting you request, I have noted your second post prior to writing this and all I can say is I’ve seen a lot worse on this site and this is an old issue. I’m no worse and certainly no better than anyone else on this site irrespective of what I’ve done or in my character. All I can say is from little acorns and all that.

Willow I made a post at one in the morning and omitted to pass my regards to you as I had to the other ladies posting on this thread. Sorry, it wasn’t personal.

Mez, Cazzer, willow and Darby thank you for your regards there very welcome at this time. My respects and affection to you and your families this Christmas.

Nice recovery busman.

Cazzer, what can I say. Thank you.
 
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Hi Doug,

My intention here was to explain why Busman's name had been brought into this thread and how things can be misunderstood when they are in a PM. One reason why I prefer to say things openly.

Perhaps your interpretation of "flirty" isn't the same as mine. I don't mean to the extent of chatting up and asking out - just the love and kisses stuff. (Good grief I'm probably old enough to be your older sister and I don't go for toy boys!) It can be totally innocent and yet for a friend of mine it sadly led to the break up of their marriage through no-one's fault but the wife's

The subject was closed long ago but for Busman's name being brought up as a suspect in your possible murder in Less's game of Cludo. Glad to see that contrary to his initial suspicions you are in fact alive and well. Have a nice Christmas.
 
No problem there Willow. You and busman have my best wishes for Christmas and the New Year.

P.S. I do believe that he may have brought is own name in to this one!!! lol.
 
flippin eck can you not let it go if this would have happened anywhere else by now this thread would have been closed can this not be the case here

doug keep up your good posting and good to see you back
 
Steven, you yourself are also prolonging this and making more of it than there is now.

Less turned it into a sarcastic quiz, Mick compounded the issue by continuing in the same vein and people took their cue from a moderator.

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No problem there Willow. You and busman have my best wishes for Christmas and the New Year.



P.S. I do believe that he may have brought is own name in to this one!!! lol.
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I think if you check back to post #7 Doug you'll see that it was Shane who brought Busman's name into this thread. I doubt he would have even noticed it otherwise.
 
Right NOW EVERYONE HAS HAD THERE SAY CAN WE CLOSE THIS TOPIC
and find something worth talking about instead of this THANKYOU
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Everyone hasn't had their say Mick. I have only just returned following a long absence and having read through this thread I think you might do well to admit that you had a lot to do yourself with the way it went.

Leave it alone. Don't be such a little Hitler. The people concerned seem to have been able to "talk" to each other here without need of interference from any outside do-gooders. Sometimes a bit of air cleaning can do people the power of good.
 
I respect your point of view Gobsmacked and I would agree that everyone has a right to express there feelings. But I myself would like to ask that this ends now and that this thread is closed. This is for no other reason than I believe that many people have now had enough.
Regards
Doug.
 
I'd have like to see Mick admit that perhaps he was at fault in leading this thread away from it's intended purpose. Alas, instead he chose to lay the blame on those who followed.

As for yourself Doug, I would say that you have responded well.
 
I think you will find it was not me that started the cludo part i admit i carried it on .
but as it is in anything goes it was only ment as a bit of fun .
if i have upset anybody then im sorry .
thats all i can say.
NOW as Doug has asked can we please drop it
 
As doug has requested that this be closed, then I will close it. I will also take this oppurtunity to remind everyone of the rules here at accyweb. We don't allow personal attacks. This thread has been reported (and not by doug may I just point out). I'd like to think accyweb can be a friendly place where everyone is welcome, this thread does us no good.

Thank you for listening and merry christmas! :)
 
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