Infamy.

[garinda]

'Infamy, infamy, they have all got it infamy.' Kenneth Williams.

I have posted a lot on this forum since I joined this site at the end of January of this year.

Sometimes I have been frivolous and silly, other times I have been very serious, and stand by the things I have written about. At all times I'm aware that this is a family site, and as near to the mark as I sometimes go, I am always aware of what I post.

The thread Romps started 'Take the Great Garinda Challenge', I found funny, and if I'm honest, flattering.

This morning however, I recieved a pm from the moderators, regarding the sexually explicit nature of my posts in 'Anything Goes', after they had recieved a complaint from another member.

I was shocked, but pleased with the way the matter was handled. When I queried what the compaint was, so I could moderate my behaviour, the answer was very revealing.

I wasn't told who had complained, but the information I got made me realise who it was, and that this member has a problem with my sexuality.

The same person came into the chatroom last night and created a room called 'Rindy Paedophile', which was witnessed infront of other chatters. This was accompanied by a threat of violence in a pm.

I am mystified as to what this person's problem is with me, but I do think they have deep seated issues which need addressing. Apparently his wife has accused him of having an affair with me. I found the public accusation that because of my sexuality, I was a child molester, deeply offensive.

I was pleased the way the issue was dealt with by the moderators, and for their support, and what I should do if I recieve anymore threats.

There is enough real suffering in the world, without this sad person trying to make more. I just have to think of my Aunt Ros, still suffering in hospital in Manchester, or the member on here who was so desperate, suicide semed to be an option.

I have no idea if this person reads this blog, although by the intense interest he seems to take in my life, it wouldn't suprise me, if you do read this, try and move on in your life and kindly leave me alone.

I feel no malice for you, just pity.

 

[g78]

The mentality of some people still ceases to amaze me. Linking the fact that a person is gay to being a peadophile is just stupid and very ignorant.
Try not to let this person's comments worry you and take them for what they are, silly immature and very sad words.

 

[Margaret Pilkington]

Garinda.......I think the person who made the complaint has a case of terminal insecurity.....as well as being an insensitive bigot. Keep your chin up......you have plenty of friends on the site.

 

[Guest]

Your sexuality is yours and yours alone and has bugger all to do with anyone else. I sometimes feel you do go too far “yet no further than a lot of others, who seen to be able to say or do anything” you have always stopped short of being offensive in my opinion. Lesson’s like this are their as natural moderators and you should learn that lesson well, trust no one that you can’t see the eyes of, and then be careful.

 

[Guest]

rindy dont let wazzocks bother you,i certainly don,t i agree with what margaret says.

 

[lettie]

You have plenty of friends on this site, and as you know we are not all bigots. The mods have to let you know if someone has complained about a post, it's their job. If you still have this threatening message I hope you've forwarded it to a moderator.

 

[Guest]

ive only just got around to reading blogs lol so sory if my comments are a little late

in the case of the person calling you a pedo and his wife accusing him of having an affair with you it can only lead to one of the following two conclusions

1: his wife is insecure with their relation ship

or

2: he has given her good reason to suspect he likes men too much

either way non of which are your problem

i have got to know you better these past few weeks and to be quite honest nothing you say can shock me or disgust me but then again my humour is pretty twisted at times as well lol

anyway i wouldnt worry about any threats made on the internet anyone can talk big from behind the screen of their monitor

treat threats like karma deductions

if their too scared to put their name dont let it bother you m8