im starting a blog because i need to.
yesterday we got the devastating news that my eldest grandson daniel, ( nette's son, who is 18yrs old) has been diagnosed with the big c ....cancer in his left leg , he had been complaining of an injury to his leg since before xmas & had been to the doc's a couple of times had blood test , he took himself up to the hospital a couple of times, then i took him to a&e at the royal 2 weeks ago on a sunday night with the attitude "i'll get this sorted they WILL listen to me " he has lost a good stone & a half in weight since xmas & wasn't eating because of the dreadful pain he is in, poor nette ..(i will now call her by my pet name for her jet from now on) was at her wits ends with him .......at the a & e on that sunday night 22nd feb, they finally gave him an x-ray nothing broken but you have a bad tear in your muscle was all bandaged up crutches given the 2nd doc that saw him said he thought he should have a scan & gave him an appointment at the fracture clinic for yesterday 5th march 8-45am. now by 1pm lunch time im going frantic cos i'd not heard owt from them jet had gone with him so i text him .. he rang me back & said nan ive had an mri scan & bursted out crying .......i knew .i knew then ...........oh god i just broke down in floods of tears ...not stopped yet. the doc that they saw that morning said he thought it was a tumour but need the scan's, dan then had a bone scan at 3-30pm went back for the results at 5-30pm jet rang me at 6-30pm on her way to her car she by this time is crying & could not find her car, i said i'd ring her later. i then got a phoone call from jason are you in for a brew i said yes i need you i need you now so he got a wet jacket when he walked through the door,
Dan & jet are going to birmingham on wednesday to have a biopsy done then we know how agressive it is & sort out what can be done ...the doc at royal did say it was a very agressive one .
im sorry bout all this but i need to write it down & im feeling just a tad better ......... i will update as i need.
before i post this many thanks for all your wishes & support that i know i will get from you all. love mez x x
yesterday we got the devastating news that my eldest grandson daniel, ( nette's son, who is 18yrs old) has been diagnosed with the big c ....cancer in his left leg , he had been complaining of an injury to his leg since before xmas & had been to the doc's a couple of times had blood test , he took himself up to the hospital a couple of times, then i took him to a&e at the royal 2 weeks ago on a sunday night with the attitude "i'll get this sorted they WILL listen to me " he has lost a good stone & a half in weight since xmas & wasn't eating because of the dreadful pain he is in, poor nette ..(i will now call her by my pet name for her jet from now on) was at her wits ends with him .......at the a & e on that sunday night 22nd feb, they finally gave him an x-ray nothing broken but you have a bad tear in your muscle was all bandaged up crutches given the 2nd doc that saw him said he thought he should have a scan & gave him an appointment at the fracture clinic for yesterday 5th march 8-45am. now by 1pm lunch time im going frantic cos i'd not heard owt from them jet had gone with him so i text him .. he rang me back & said nan ive had an mri scan & bursted out crying .......i knew .i knew then ...........oh god i just broke down in floods of tears ...not stopped yet. the doc that they saw that morning said he thought it was a tumour but need the scan's, dan then had a bone scan at 3-30pm went back for the results at 5-30pm jet rang me at 6-30pm on her way to her car she by this time is crying & could not find her car, i said i'd ring her later. i then got a phoone call from jason are you in for a brew i said yes i need you i need you now so he got a wet jacket when he walked through the door,
Dan & jet are going to birmingham on wednesday to have a biopsy done then we know how agressive it is & sort out what can be done ...the doc at royal did say it was a very agressive one .
im sorry bout all this but i need to write it down & im feeling just a tad better ......... i will update as i need.
before i post this many thanks for all your wishes & support that i know i will get from you all. love mez x x
