Peer pressure
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With girls in particular, i would say as soon as they start to wander away from the street, is nice to be able to ring and check where they are, have a tip for you though gayle, tell her, the first time you ring and she doesnt answer, she will lose it, because if you ring and it isnt answered, you will worry!
How old is she Gayle?
My grandson has one now, just gone nine, just uses it to mess about with really. He has limited credit. Uses it more as an Mp3 and a camera.
It's good to know that you can ring and find out where they are, even if it is just up the road! Beats having your kids chipped, like some folk are doing!
My 2 youngest had them at about 10, (now 18) they messed about with them for a while, then the novelty wore off, especially when they discovered they would have to use their spending money to get their credit.
But then again, you are the parent, and if you feel uncomfortable about it, you have your answer.
My grandson has one now, just gone nine, just uses it to mess about with really. He has limited credit. Uses it more as an Mp3 and a camera.
It's good to know that you can ring and find out where they are, even if it is just up the road! Beats having your kids chipped, like some folk are doing!
My 2 youngest had them at about 10, (now 18) they messed about with them for a while, then the novelty wore off, especially when they discovered they would have to use their spending money to get their credit.
But then again, you are the parent, and if you feel uncomfortable about it, you have your answer.
Laura bought herself one, earlier this year, with the remainder of her Christmas money. She's 8 (will be 9 in 2 weeks). It was quite cheap from Tesco, about £20 I think, but it does everything bar cooking lunch - takes video footage, records sound etc., etc.
She uses, mainly, it to text and talk to her dad and to take pictures and videos. She also has a thing she's recorded on it that's "Radio Laura", her own version of a steal from all those kids' radio shows, that she plays with great glee every now and then. So far only 1 of her friends has a phone so she's not "networking" and she's certainly not using it on a daily basis.
She uses, mainly, it to text and talk to her dad and to take pictures and videos. She also has a thing she's recorded on it that's "Radio Laura", her own version of a steal from all those kids' radio shows, that she plays with great glee every now and then. So far only 1 of her friends has a phone so she's not "networking" and she's certainly not using it on a daily basis.
Tom has one Gayle and he is 6. I call him when he is at friends or just playing around and about. It makes me feel better about letting him out of the house. I usually find if I want Rhonda its easier to phone Tom and get him to pass the phone to his mum, at least he answers it 
Tom has one Gayle and he is 6. I call him when he is at friends or just playing around and about. It makes me feel better about letting him out of the house. I usually find if I want Rhonda its easier to phone Tom and get him to pass the phone to his mum, at least he answers it
Oh, heck it's bad enough with the pressure from Maddie, don't you go giving Zack ideas too.
Oh, heck it's bad enough with the pressure from Maddie, don't you go giving Zack ideas too.
Sorry
I agree with ringing her Grandma or ringing you, but why does she need to text her friends, whom she's probably spent all day with at school anyway.
I'd put a limit on it, abuse it and loose it, no aw mum either.
Retlaw.
Fortunately, I don't let him read posts on here so you're off the hook for now!
I could get Tom to phone him from his mobile on your home number
I could get Tom to phone him from his mobile on your home number
You could but he won't answer the phone - i am the only person in our house who can hear the phone ringing! weird that!
Spug says he bought his daughter one for her 9th birthday. Top ups she has to earn otherwise she doesnt get it topped up. It was a Motorola L6 the one he bought her. I just asked him now.
My two Granddaughters both 9 have one Gayle. One always forgets to take it out with her and don't think she bothers with it much. Our boo uses hers and loves taking pictures but she forgets to charge it up. Both gran daughters have their mum's hand me downs, but you can get some good cheep ones and give her a limited credit.
Thing is Retlaw, things have changed. As Gayle as stated, Maddie is never on her own. Gone are the days when you came home from school, had yer tea and then went out playing with friends. They come home and sit at home or have accompanied interests, so the need to keep in touch with their friends is probably important to them.
Gayle, you know full well, you are going to buy Maddie one. She is only viewing it as a 'toy' and not an emergency facility at all, although this may be one of arguments she puts forward to you (we girls are clever).
I have changed my mind about this recently as the way of the world now, just as long as she knows how to use it in an emergency and not to intrude in other people's space, then OK. 'Course you will have to restrict the money you feed into it .. best to have pay as you go. Would arrange a deal for a certain figure every ? months, etc., and that's it.
As said, try not to ring it yerself, as a no reply only worries .. my 18 year old grandaughter never answers my textes or calls (unless in her own interest), but I know full well she has seen them.
No they are not. Why should we take our children's childhood from them just because we are more informed as to what goes on these days?
By our children and their friends having phones it allows them and us to keep in touch with and feel safer about them playing out. I had fun with my friends as a child and I want my children too as well.
I don't think things have changed that much in the last 30 years. We just have much greater TV/radio/internet/newspaper coverage these days scaring us into locking our children up.