September,,,,

I hate November as there isn't anything to look forward to. Dark nights, no Bank Holidays and quite away from Christmas.
 
Memories never die, as long as you aren't skinny, and share them with others.

Keep strong GC, and keep your happy memories alive xxx

:)
 
Granny, your memories are what brighten up the dull days......get out your happy snaps.......the times you laughed and had fun. It might make you cry now, but imagine if those times had never existed.
Some people never know the love and happiness you have experienced in your life.

Write a blog......share your memories with others, and at the same time relive them yourself.
Be strong.( x )
 
Aaah G-C, sounds like you have been a lucky lady to have had such a lovely man in your life.
 
GC, the first year is the worst. There are all those special dates to be lived through, for the first time, on your own. It is so hard.

Like you, September meant a lot to me. On the 15th I would have been married 47 years, this year, but it wasn't to be. I can just smile and feel a bit sad now because Time has healed the raw pain. You will find that, too, though you probably don't believe it yet.
 
West Ender said:
GC, the first year is the worst. There are all those special dates to be lived through, for the first time, on your own. It is so hard.

Like you, September meant a lot to me. On the 15th I would have been married 47 years, this year, but it wasn't to be. I can just smile and feel a bit sad now because Time has healed the raw pain. You will find that, too, though you probably don't believe it yet.
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We would have been married for 48 years next week,,Where i ALWAYS got a lovely bouquet of flowers ,it will be me taking flowers to the crem,,,
 
grannyclaret said:
We would have been married for 48 years next week,,Where i ALWAYS got a lovely bouquet of flowers ,it will be me taking flowers to the crem,,,
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Oh Granny C.:(

If I was your husband I'd let you buy the flowers, because I physically couldn't, but l'd tell you they were for you, to keep in our house, to look at and enjoy, and not to take them to the crematorium.

I'd bet if he could, your dear hubby would say the same thing.

Thinking about you at this time, and you Westender xx
 
Oh thanks Rindy you realy are a kind person ,,,i will be buying 2 lots of flowers ,big yellow blooms of which i will have one at home and Jim will have the other...
and my respects to Westender too
 
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grannyclaret said:
,i will be buying 2 lots of flowers ,big yellow blooms of which i will have one at home and Jim will have the other...
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Good.:)

My great-grandmother always told her daughters to give her flowers anytime they wanted to whilst she was alive, because they were no good to her when she was up the graveyard.:D

Having two bunches is a good compromise.:)
 
grannyclaret said:
We would have been married for 48 years next week,,Where i ALWAYS got a lovely bouquet of flowers ,it will be me taking flowers to the crem,,,
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But just think how lucky you are hon ... you could be like me, with two marriages and a few relationships that were absolute disasters ... nothing to remember with any pleasure ... no fond memories; well, maybe a few, but far between .... sure there's the loss, that's inevitable, but you had something that many people can only dream about.

On a lighter note: today is the 42nd. anniversary of my arrival in Canada:theband:.... something I intend to celebrate big time.
 
September - Still vestiges of summer, the turning of the leaves, the fading of the flowers, the occasional onset of winter. October and November to follow, my months of sadness and loss.
Each year gets a little easier and as long as you live with hope then it does really get better and who knows what the future holds for us.
There can always be a wonderful surprise waiting just around the corner for each and everyone of us. I know because it has happened to me.
Do not fear the future - Fear is a disease and Hope is is the only cure
 
Thanks Barrie i heed what you say,,,There are so many kind people on this website and i feel much better for their kind wishes and wisdom
 
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