What Do You Do?

junetta

junetta

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My mate has just had a major bust up with her hubby. She turned up at my place around one o'clock this morning and I gave her a coffee and a brandy. After half an hour she insisted on going home. Five minutes later she was back because the bad git had locked her out.
She's now fast asleep in my spare room and I'm wide awake!!
It's so difficult because I love them both to bits. I can't really say too much about him because I know that they will be the best of friends tomorrow.
Flippin' heck!!
 
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Sounds like you did just right Junetta. Opening up your house twice to your friend and just being there. I do hope they caan get a handle on these types of situations before tha=ey turn violent!

Cheers!

Brian
 
best thing ...don't take sides , leave it to them to sort out , you take sides , next thing you know your an interfering bugger and both fall out with you , and bad mouth you to everyone

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You did just right June in letting her have somewhere safe to stop till things calm down. Its a lose-lose situation if you take sides just try to be friends to both and hope they can sort themselves out soon.
 
i have been in the same situation myself june the advice the others have given you is good.just be there for them both & not in the middle, karma on way for your caring ways ....x
 
I say the same. It's difficult being in the middle of something but all you really can do is be there and not take sides.
 
its probably just a lovers tiff and they'll be back together before you know it, lkie grego says just be there for them both, and dont take sides
 
Well, I'm sorry, will be in the minority here I know, but having suffered the intrusion of friends in the past due to their 'tiffs' and a night's sleep ruined on many occasions, have now hardened to this state of affairs and would have boxed her ears and sent her home.

Different, of course, if he is a wife beater etc., but sounds all very churlish to me, and feel you should be cruel to be kind here... sorry ... :(
 
katex said:
Well, I'm sorry, will be in the minority here I know, but having suffered the intrusion of friends in the past due to their 'tiffs' and a night's sleep ruined on many occasions, have now hardened to this state of affairs and would have boxed her ears and sent her home.

Different, of course, if he is a wife beater etc., but sounds all very churlish to me, and feel you should be cruel to be kind here... sorry ... :(
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I agree with kate! as my mum and dad have always told me you should never go to sleep on a argument!! What would happen if one of them did somat stupid? the other one would never be able to forgive themselves.:(
 
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