Margaret Pilkington said:Oh.....by the way, this is a very acrimonious thread....and it doesn't need to be.
Yes it is, so have a few other threads been recently.
There is a common theme, but I wouldn't be so rude as to name her.

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thing is blame actually can be assertained to society as well, as someone brought up that parents are under enormous pressure to do things right either by all accounts. When i was young i was always out at the park, up coppice [gr8 exercise locally lol] running about but nowadays safety issue has been 'the' biggest concern certainly in our neighbourhoods coupled with the fact of the computer/gaming surge ~ the reality is that it isnt as safe or we are in fear more of safety than ever ~ gaming industry capitises on that plus peer pressure to be a good parent like someone said that 'we'd be different than our parents' attitude.
n cakes lol, so that what used to be a generational thing of passing down recipes etc is now lost. Also they want to be careful as to where & how this is approached as far as pressure as we may have an increasing obesity but we have increasing eating disorder problems too ~ so balance is needed.