Yeh im very much the same in that respect Spuggie, i do explain why i make my descion & also wont be nagged or bribed to change my mind either - shows good example to them that you make a descion you have to stick with it, i dont accept the 'cos' or 'because i said so line' instantly if i have explained & they asked then they will be told thats my final answer hehehehehe
I dont spoil them not that i have means to do it & i think that stands them in better stead than growing up a bigger baby like Nicki of BB - talk of being modycoddled!!! I teach m kids life skills & survival in all aspects as best i can!
Though my kids will tell you im very mean but fair