came across this news item
BBC NEWS | Health | Britons embarrassed about condoms
no way would I think about crawling/staggering into bed with a new partner without using any kind of protection and I'm an old 'geezer' haven't the younger folks learnt anything about sex-education over the last 20 years , even if the women you copulate with are of a certain age , it's no gaurantee you won't end up with recurring 'cold-sores' on your dangley bits or something even worse