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or for any reason (which is rare) that they are separated as they seem lost because their "other half" isnt there
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Totally identify with that, when mine were younger.
As they grew older, particularly into their teens, it was entirely the opposite.
It became more of a competition. Take school work. If one did something to a certain standard, the other had to be at least equal. May seem like that is a healthy thing, but had no end of upset if one didn't aspire to the other in something.
As they went on, and took different subjects, the situation was alleviated somewhat.