Re: Jeanette Winterston - famous novelist
 

I don't think she noticed the date of his death on the headstone was 1951-9 years before he adapted her. It was probably his father(her adapted grandfather) buried there in a family grave so her adapted father ended up in the wrong grave!

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see my posts 221 and 228

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Oops!
All kestrelx's fault, honest.
Forgot it was discussed two days ago.

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I think Jeanette doesn't feel she quite fits in with Accrington or belongs - I know the feeling! Which is why she stated she has mixed feelings about going back there.

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It's the constant victimhood which annoys me. I've never read her books, maybe a more balanced view is apparent there. But the TV programmes give only her side of the story.

Consider: we only really hear about her primary school years. All I'll say about that is young children learn to read at home more than at school. After that, she must have passed her 11+ to get into Accrington High School for girls. She then went to Accrington and Rossendale College (and must've been there at the same time as Max from Brookside BTW).

Whilst there, she must have taken the Oxford entrance exam, presumably she passed because she was accepted. She then went to Oxford (and apparently possessed a car at the time, albeit a rather humble one -so she learned to drive at a very young age).

Is all this really possible without a very supportive background? I would say not. In many respects she had a privileged background. Can today's teenagers look forward to this level of social mobility? Again I'd say not. Far from being this downtrodden heroine, she was probably helped and supported in most important respects.

I think the truth would not have made such an entertaining story ?

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You cover some great points here bzk. One is minded of that old adage “Why let the truth get in the way of a good story. I have just finished reading David McRaney’s excellent book “You are not so smart” ** and in there is a chapter “Confabulation” The Misconception: You know when you are lying to yourself. The Truth: You are ignorant of your motivations and create fictional narratives to explain your decisions, emotions and history without realising it.
He finishes the chapter off, How do you separate fantasy from reality. How can you be sure the story of your life both from long ago and minute to minute is true? There is a pleasant vindication to be found when you accept you can’t. No one can, yet we persist and thrive. Who you are is sort of like a movie based on true events , which is not necessarily a bad thing. The details may be embellished, but the big picture, the general idea is probably a good story worth hearing about.

There is a pre “Why be happy.....” interview where JW says her birth mother is dead, interesting and not true and hinting at her sense of theatre, play and danger.

** One World Publications ISBN 1-85168-939-2

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When Susie provided the link for a free read. I did make a start.

I soon lost patience with her 'victim' mentality.

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Having read a bit more I agree, MargaretR. I don't think I'll bother with 'Oranges are etc'

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I have done the same on the memorial stone for my wife. On the bottom it says "Beloved wife of Russell Taylor" and there is room for the date of my death to be added later.
Also her son by her first husband who died in 1973 aged 8 is buried in the fathers grave. We put a memorial on the grave using the son's name "Tregurtha" (my wife's maiden name) because his father would not put his own name on the birth certificate. The father died later and no one knows any other relative.
There may be some person from the fathers family, who in the future, objects to the memorial so the Cemetery superintendent told us it would be in order to have the little boys name on his mothers memorial. That way he will not be forgotten.

I was advised to watch the Winterston TV program and sat through it with nowt else to do. I don't think I would have bothered otherwise. It didn't show Accrington in a good light in my opinion.

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Have too agree,endured 3 chapters n then thought "Stuff This"

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She has the luxury to keep going over this and selling it as a book - many people have had worse lives and still have - she is lucky that she's made money and has a relatively good life - others don't have that fortune.;)

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I believe that sometimes adopted children really do not connect with their adoptive parents. When the child also knows their biological parent is still out there, coupled with teenage rebellion, inevitably you have trouble.

I wonder how much of her perception of her past is simply a rationalisation of this. I doubt an independent person would be so one-sided as she is. Maybe she is simply incapable of being objective on her upbringing for psychological reasons.

Someone above indicated she had a puppy as a child. Apparently at age 16 she also had a Mini. Did she learn to drive at 17? Who paid for that?

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I have just read the first three chapters from Sue's much-appreciated link. I think it's brilliant and will read the rest. She is an amazing writer and her scope and use of language is unique -it spirals around and draws you in and I can identify with many of the people and places.
I don't get "victim" coming through at all, some flashes of anger and wry humour are there and also some nice things about Mrs. Winterson - undoubtedly her reading to Jeanette as a child was very powerful in shaping the direction her life took.
She has dedicated the book to three people one of whom is Constance Winterson and that is very significant - for a writer to dedicate their book to someone is a very important and emotionally charged decision. That person or persons is usually instrumental in the inspiration of the writing and its execution -the two are inextricably linked.

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Quite a coincidence but I just got a Xmas card from Accy -my Aunt has put in a DVD recording of the programme in so I'll be able to watch it now!:)

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Sorry to pick up on this but any child sometimes does not connect with their parents, it's how your brought up and loved that influences this.

In Jeanette's case I might be wrong but I'm sure the programme said her adoptive Mother told her that her Mother was dead.