secret satisfaction.....

mrskitty · 13-09-2008, 12:14

I know this is really, really bad but recently i saw a picture of one of my exes with his new girlfriend.......and she was erm.......not very pretty and fatter than me *haha*
It really cheered me up (i know-im sad) and wondered if this had happened to anyone else?
Any of my other exes and i wouldn't have given two hoots but it was my ex that decided to have nothing to do with our son (suited me just fine) so it was just another point for me-along with the other million points where he lost out watching jack grow into the amazing little boy he has become.

It was brilliant knowing i ended up with someone so much fitter (yea Corker dont deny it-your gorgeous

) and i turned out fitter than my ex did too (although he was a v popular,'wanted' lad at college when i was with him, i wouldn't go with him now).....im so glad Jack looks more like me

so i wana hear your stories about seeing your ex with their new girlf/boyfs......ever laughed out loud (BY ACCIDENT OF COURSE) when you saw your ex?
Ever felt like i do right now?

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BERNADETTE · 13-09-2008, 13:43

Think about it this way misskitty, he is missing out on the joys of bringing Jack up. When I see my first husband I just think about all the things he has missed while my two were growing up and even quite a lot of the joys of the grandchildren. I can look back on the happy years that I had with Ianto and the kids and just think to myself that he missed out on so much.

Just count your blessings in having found Corker who I have no doubt will continue to make you happy and will be proud to bring your little boy up. You have got a good one there just enjoy your lives together

mrskitty · 13-09-2008, 14:13

Thankyou Bernie.....Corker and Jack are the best things that have ever happened to me.....i count my blessings everyday and always tell/show them how much they are appreciated <3 <3 <3

It's nice to stick two fingers up at my ex though

BERNADETTE · 13-09-2008, 14:22

The best way you can do that is by making a success of what you have got(no doubts on that score). Ironically my ex's Dad came to my wedding to Ian, we were quite close. When he came down to visit his daughter he always used to search us out. Told me I was the best thing that happened to his son, which in itself gave me some satisfaction

emamum · 13-09-2008, 14:25

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mrskitty · 13-09-2008, 14:35

Haha thats mint ema......i really did laugh out loud when i saw the picture.......and i felt even more gorgeous than usual lmao

emamum · 13-09-2008, 14:37

unlike me... lol i think we had this convo already lol

mrskitty · 13-09-2008, 14:38

we sure did.......deja vu!

emamum · 13-09-2008, 14:42

someones put bricks in my bra today!

bloomin feels like it anyway.....

better than that tho.. i seem to have butterflies in my belly

mrskitty · 13-09-2008, 14:46

slightly off topic there em :S

emzy · 13-09-2008, 15:05

I often see my ex with his girlfriends, but choose not to make a comment,

The other real comment I can make is they always make me feel old as have all been younger than me lol

But I'm happier now than ive ever been so cant say it bothers me at all seeing him with other girls

emamum · 13-09-2008, 15:06

Quote:

Originally Posted by emzy

I often see my ex with his girlfriends, but choose not to make a comment,

The other real comment I can make is they always make me feel old as have all been younger than me lol

But I'm happier now than ive ever been so cant say it bothers me at all seeing him with other girls

lol, i was waiting to see what your comments on this would be.