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jambutty 14-03-2008 12:00

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
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Originally Posted by Yolanda25 (Post 545704)
my screen name is my name, not my age though haha i woundt mind stay at the age of 25 , there is no many yolandas in lancashire anyway, and its yolanda not yolande i hate when people call me yolande

Then you will understand my objections to certain individuals who deliberately mis-name me.

A typo I can accept but deliberately mis-naming a person is just crass ignorance. It’s the sort of behaviour that belongs in a Kindergarten and so do the people who perpetrate such a discourtesy.

cashman 14-03-2008 13:18

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personally i think its pathetic objecting to abbreviated names, could understand if it was insulting but owt else just pathetic, IMHO.

Yolanda25 14-03-2008 13:29

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
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Originally Posted by jambutty (Post 545807)
Then you will understand my objections to certain individuals who deliberately mis-name me.

A typo I can accept but deliberately mis-naming a person is just crass ignorance. It’s the sort of behaviour that belongs in a Kindergarten and so do the people who perpetrate such a discourtesy.


Oh yeah i get mad when people call me yolande, simply cuz it was my mum who choose my name and she is english and she can say it right, so why can the rest not say it righ, i dont mind when people call me yo if its easier for them but i hate yolande:rolleyes:

jaysay 14-03-2008 13:31

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The thing is if they're insulting me then they're leaving everybody else alone, and anyway I'm think skinned and can take it http://content.sweetim.com/sim/cpie/...s/0002006E.gif

jambutty 14-03-2008 14:10

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Originally Posted by cashman (Post 545817)
personally i think its pathetic objecting to abbreviated names, could understand if it was insulting but owt else just pathetic, IMHO.

It is even more pathetic, lazy, disrespectful and insulting to call someone by a name other than their own.

Would you ask your greengrocer for a pound of CP’s?

Would you call your boss by his initials or his abbreviated name to his face, unless it was the norm?

This whole issue is a puerile sub-conscious attempt to try and establish an infantile superiority over the person you name. Old fashioned foremen would often mis-name a new employee as a means of establishing who is boss. Tradesmen would also employ the same tactic when addressing their apprentices.

blazey 14-03-2008 14:14

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Originally Posted by jambutty (Post 545842)
It is even more pathetic, lazy, disrespectful and insulting to call someone by a name other than their own.

Would you ask your greengrocer for a pound of CP’s?

Would you call your boss by his initials or his abbreviated name to his face, unless it was the norm?

This whole issue is a puerile sub-conscious attempt to try and establish an infantile superiority over the person you name. Old fashioned foremen would often mis-name a new employee as a means of establishing who is boss. Tradesmen would also employ the same tactic when addressing their apprentices.

Have you ever thought that we abbreviate your name in an affectionate way?

Sara 14-03-2008 19:24

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
Doesn't bother me either. Only difference with my name and my user name is that on here the H is not added. Reason is that i didn't realise i'd not put the H on until after i registered.

derekgas 14-03-2008 20:16

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
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Originally Posted by blazey (Post 545843)
Have you ever thought that we abbreviate your name in an affectionate way?

:rofl38::rofl38:

garinda 14-03-2008 22:47

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Originally Posted by blazey (Post 545843)
Have you ever thought that we abbreviate your name in an affectionate way?

I once, in affection, called a member on this forum 'Jim Bitty', inspired by that sterling BBC programme, Little Britain.

I'm not sure how well it went down.

Probably not as well as Mummy's milk.

Neil 14-03-2008 22:48

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Originally Posted by blazey (Post 545843)
Have you ever thought that we abbreviate your name in an affectionate way?

Your saying daft things again.

garinda 14-03-2008 22:50

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Originally Posted by Neil (Post 546174)
Your saying daft things again.


Kneel, Blazer's always saying daft things.:D

steeljack 14-03-2008 22:54

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
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Originally Posted by blazey (Post 545843)
Have you ever thought that we abbreviate your name in an affectionate way?

its stuff like this that reminds me of Capitan Mainwairing (sp?) in Dads Army and his famous quote ........"you stupid boy " :D

cashman 14-03-2008 22:57

Re: Do people feel funny about others using their real names?
 
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Originally Posted by jambutty (Post 545842)
It is even more pathetic, lazy, disrespectful and insulting to call someone by a name other than their own.

Would you ask your greengrocer for a pound of CP’s?

Would you call your boss by his initials or his abbreviated name to his face, unless it was the norm?

This whole issue is a puerile sub-conscious attempt to try and establish an infantile superiority over the person you name. Old fashioned foremen would often mis-name a new employee as a means of establishing who is boss. Tradesmen would also employ the same tactic when addressing their apprentices.

the only person trying to be superior to everyone is you from where i'm standing.:rolleyes:

shillelagh 14-03-2008 23:02

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Originally Posted by cashman (Post 546181)
the only person trying to be superior to everyone is you from where i'm standing.:rolleyes:

Hey theres only one person whos allowed to be superior on this .........










and it aint me!!!!

keetah992000 14-03-2008 23:29

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i dont mind personally -you can cll me lisa OR lis - eh jim?


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