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Live and let live Is what I say on this subject.
Kestrelx-- I don't see what drugs has to do with this subject. Just seems a little like you are trying to provoke these guys. |
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Barack Obama's support for gay marriage has guaranteed it will be a big issue in the forthcoming election.
Hopefully it will show up the narrow mindedness and bigotry of those opposed to it, and will bring equality that little bit closer. |
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I don't think it will, it is a cynical ploy to catch votes...and I'm sure that many americans will see through his abysmal opportunism.
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It seems Barack ain't quite as popular as he once was, seems to be panicking somewhat
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He might not go down too well in the bible belt with his gay marriage comments, but I can't see him losing any sleep about that! |
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At least the yanks won't be hobbled by EU regulations.
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Work it out Mancie...I'm sure you are capable of that.
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I think you are dead wrong on this one, hon. I think that Obama's decision comes from conviction. And, on the whole, it is voter neutral. People who are in favor of same sex unions would vote Democrat anyway ... and those who oppose it (along with taxes, affirmative action, govt. funded health care, a woman's right to control over her body ... this right is, I believe, guaranteed by the ninth and fourteenth ammendments ... ) would never vote Democrat anyway. Take North Carolina, for example, if Obama got rid of all taxes, and promised that everyone over the age of two would get a free assault rifle, he still couldn't take that State. It doesn't help Romney one bit. He has enough problems trying, as a Mormon, to convince the ultra-right, born again Christian nutbars to support him. Most of these idiots consider Romney too liberal.:rolleyes::rolleyes: Still don't see why this is an issue in the US and the UK.:confused: I would like to find some stats on how gays vote ... I have a feeling that they tend to vote in large numbers. |
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Does that mean 64.11% of these voters are narrow minded bigots? Reading the posts I think not. |
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Maybe they will formulate something so that they have left no stone unturned. |
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Couldn't it? It seems to get into every other place quite easily.
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Strasbourg court rules that states are not obliged to allow gay marriage | Antoine Buyse | Law | guardian.co.uk They've ruled that countries aren't obliged to have same sex marriages which I suppose is the same as saying they don't have any rules on it. |
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See...I knew there would be some directive or other.
EU meddling gets on my...erm...mammaries. As I said to Eric...I have run out of my anti-cynical pills. |
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Yes Steve, they are different.......I have got to the point now where everything to do with Europe, the EU and ECHR brings me out in hives.
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I didn't say I was impartial. I have my views...you don't have to share them.
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That confirms it then Eric...it is the cynic in me...I'll get the double strength version.
I think many of theBritish electorate are jaundiced about politics and politicians - maybe that has more than a little to do with how we have been sold down the river......told we could have a referendum on the EU.......promised we would have a chance to reform the Human Rights fiasco..promised that fees would not rise for higher education.......lots of things...none of which have thus far materialised. Maybe it is different on that side of the pond. |
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The late Pierre Trudeau, a Liberal politician I actually admired, once proclaimed that "[the] State has no business in the bedrooms of the nation." That about sums up the attitude of the majority of Canadians. And if two people want to get married, what's the problem:confused:
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I didn't vote at the last General election....and I have outlined the reason for this many times. Yes, I have views on the UK economy......isn't that something I have in common with many rightminded people? Maybe you don't have the same views but you still have them right? I did not vote for this governement as you well know......so how does that constitute support for it? The next vote I cast will be for a politician who has core values which reflect mine,who I trust and will do a good job...and it does not matter what flag they go under.....I am not hidebound by party political dogma. And having posted this, all before, on other threads at other times...you know this. you are just being contentious(and I am being patient - but it is wearing thin)...as usual. |
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I'm not against same sex marriage, as long as they don't rub it in my face, I could have phrased that better, but you know what I mean
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We all know you'd love a pair of lesbians, rubbing it in your face. ;):D |
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A lesbian is a woman that gets pleasure from another woman. A Lancastrian is someone that gets pleasure from seeing a Yorkshireman with problems. ;) |
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I've been a Les' from birth, they have only been that way inclined from puberty and yet they talk to me as if THEY are experts! No wonder the World is mad. :( |
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Les been the has been :D
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Hebden Bridge - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Mind you, some cantakerous Boycott type, with a cap as flat as his vowels, or tipping Sappho's velvet, it's no wonder it's popular over there, on the wrong side of the border. :rolleyes::D |
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There seem to be last ditch attempts by Conservative back benchers to postpone this week's vote on gay marriages. It seems that they fear people will not vote Conservative at the next election.
So who will these people vote for? Labour? No. They support gay marriage. Liberal Democrat? No. They support gay marriage even more than Labour. What does that leave? UKIP? Well yes, they have opportunistically declared themselves against gay marriage. But what in God's name has Britains future economic stability got to do with who you are lying next to when you switch off the lights? The truth is that these people are simply homophobic, and are hiding their prejudices behind a contrived shield of respectability. Let's hope nobody is taken in by it. |
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No, I am not homophobic........I do not care who shares a bed with whom...but I am against the redefining of marriage.
This government is making promises it hasn't a hope in hell of keeping. We all know how we Kow-Tow to the edicts from Brussels and the EU. What do you thing the Court of Human Rights will have to say about some vicar not marrying a same sex couple because it goes against his conscience? Since when have the rights of the few over-ridden the rights of the many...and don't give me that old twaddle about 'Equality' it doesn't wash. Let same sex couples have some sort of ceremony(I think this already exists - civil partnership)but marriage by definition is the joining of a man and a woman. Politicians are just using this cynically to catch more votes....and while they are doing this they are NOT dealing with other things that are far more relevant and pressing....we have rampant immigration, we have economic woes that seem to be on the back burner(or at last it looks that way to the outsider)....we can't have a vote on the EU until 2017.....but politicians can fiddle around with laws to make same sex marriage a legal statute. Thanks Gynn, for putting my blood pressure up this early in the morning......and starting my day off with a scowl. Hope your days goes as good as mine has started. (rant over) |
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I'll just sit back now and wait for the red stuff to come flying my way.
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By labelling people homophobic/racist/bigot, you stifle all further debate on the subject.
But then that is exactly what it is calculated to do.....send any other opinion 'underground'. I am really glad I am at the bum end of my life. |
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The topic is just a distraction from more serious issues that should be having your attention.
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But for once, Boris Johnstone has got it spot on. Let's just whack it through and get on with the more important things we should be worrying about. |
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By whacking it through, no thought is given to the implications for the future...and also the voice of dissenters is not being heard.
I agree with you Margaret...it is a distraction ploy that takes our attention from things that should be being addressed. are more important, and will impact on more of the population. But this is an 'easy fix' not as fraught with difficulties as some of the other issues. |
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I am not against them having some sort of ceremony in any religious establishment that wishes to host such ceremonies.....but do not call it 'marriage' because it can never be that. Marriage is a sacrament between a man and a woman. |
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i know its an extreeme example but if a few muslims decided they liked bacon could you see government getting involved and telling the muslim population and clerics that they have to allow the eating of pork products?The whole thing has nothing to do with government and they should keep their beaks out. Let the religous have their little gang and anyone who differs in opinion go do something else. i no defender of the church i think its a backward ogranisation full of hypocracey and corruption but what irks me is yet again a small minority of a group of people have decided that things must change to suit them. |
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I'll pass on discussing what it says in the Bible or we'll be back to defending slavery and murdering children who misbehave. |
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i was cursed with christianity against my will by my parents when i was a child and unable to object but as i have broken most of teh rules and enjoyed doing so iv stayed away from churches.What i havnt done is kick up a fuss demanding the church change its requirements so that i can attend with a clear concience. Quote:
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This doersn't mean that they cannot be christians, just that they cannot expect to partake of a sacrament that is purely for a man and a woman. I am not agains homosexuals having their union blessed(if they can find a vicar who can do this for them).......but the redefining of marriage for them is wrong......it cannot be any other way. It doesn't matter if governments legislate for this, people who hold that marriage is between a man and a woman will not change their views.....but people will be criminalised for their religious beliefs and for following their conscience. I await the first muslim same sex wedding...do you think I might live to see it? Do you think the Court of Human rights in Strasbourg will persecute muslims for not upholding same sex weddings...which is most definitely against the tenets of their religion. |
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does marriage mean the same anymore anyway? apparently 34% of marriages end in divorce before 20 years mark, search online for divorce and one of the first things you will see is adverts of how to get quickie low cost divorces
in our throw away society has marriage not become just another "commodity" anyway, and when you have had enough just bin it, im relatively young in comparison to a lot of the posters on the site (could be wrong), but i still believe in marriage for life, rough with the smooth n all that goes with it and working through your problems, we will be celebrating our 24th wedding anniversary this month (maybe mrs church wouldnt use the phrase celebrating), and through that time there have been some real lows, but if you both believe that marriage means something, i believe that both will try when times are hard. so for same sex marriage i say what the heck, go for it, but for me i would do away with divorce, sure people can split up, but you cant re-marry, once in a lifetime, then i think people would enter into marriage a little more cautious. as a side note, i am booked to perform at a same sex marriage/blessing/civil partnership whatever the correct term will be then, this summer, the 2 ladies involved have been together a number of years and have a child (younger than the relationship), they seem happy enough so why shouldnt they join in matrimony, i am not religious but believe in marriage, even discussing "getting married again" on our 25th next year |
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Where in the bible does it defend slavery and advocate the murdering of children?
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im not sure on that one but i do recall a tale of a man who didnt do as he was told by god so god turned his wife into a pillar of salt.. i would hardly call that a punishment she may have been a right nag and it actually be a blessing was it issac or someone not that i actually believe that crap happened but it does show how backward the bible is man does wrong - punish the woman lol |
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Here's a start on child killing... Murder in the Bible |
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what is that old saying....I know it is french, but as we are not allowed foreign stuff.....it is look for the woman Even Adam blamed Eve!
All the murders are from the Old Testament of the bible.....and I have to admit my bible history is very rusty, but do they actually all advocate killing/murder. Anyway, that does not detract from the fact that marriage is a sacrament that can only be between a man and a woman.........and the government can change a law but it will not change the opinion of those whose conscience is compromised by a change of definition. I will wait and see when the first muslim same sex marriage is performed. |
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Even Jews don't have a wedding reception and a wake on the same day to save on catering. :eek: |
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christianity has been around quite a while now and it seems like the con/lib co-alition this jesus/god co-alition isnt doing too well either and both need to be scrapped |
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Titus 2:9 "Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them" 1 Peter 2:18 "Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh." Col 3:22 "Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to win their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord." Murdering children: Deuteronomy 21:18-21 If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and will not listen to them when they discipline him, his father and mother shall take hold of him and bring him to the elders at the gate of his town. They shall say to the elders, "This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious. He will not obey us. He is a profligate and a drunkard." Then all the men of his town shall stone him to death." And there are probably other quotes. Just shows what an insult to the intelligence the argument that the Bible condemns homosexuality actually is! |
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Come to think of it, this whole "Bible" thing is a bit silly. I think most of us can agree that the Bible is not the "word of God". If God has a Bible, he probably has it in the "humour" section of his library. Christians ... I'm talkin' the born again kind ... tend to be selective in their readings. Many US Christians support capital punishment, a convenient ignoring of one of those commandment thingies. And many muslims conveniently forget the warm and fuzzy parts of the Koran ... and there are lots of them.
But I do think that spirtuality is important for many folks, much more important than, say, Papal infalibility, which is a fairly recent idea, or the Biblical injunctions against masturbation ... mmm, that would put the number of sinners in the world at around 7 billion, give or take a few.:D And if two people want to add a spiritual dimension to their relationship, I can't see why anyone would want to put road blocks in their way. |
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Eric, I have no qualms about homosexuals being christians, or adding any kind of spiritual dimension to their lives......no-one is trying to ban them from the church, or from other services permitted by the church...it is just that marriage is a sacrament that joins a man and a woman...for the purpose of procreation(and now you are going to say what about those who cannot have children - the elderly brides, well the marriage service is different for them). That is the primary aim of marriage....to give a foundation on which to bring up families.
This government are promising that people who invoke a conscience clause will not be persecuted(or prosecuted) for not marrying homosexuals....but this guarantee is worthless, because a couple who feel they have been 'wronged' by a celebrant refusing to marry them, will, no doubt take this to the Court in Strasbourg....and any laws we have, will be over-ridden by them....we are going to be criminalising people for exercising their beliefs. Teachers who have firm christian/traditional views will be dismissed if they do not teach about homosexual marriage. so the views of the few are going to be foisted onto the majority.....and those dissenters will be labelled homophobic, or bigot....with the prime purpose of stifling any discussion of the subject. People will still think what they want to think,but they just won't vocalise it(for fear of being labelled)...and that cannot be right. I will say again.........I have nothing at all against anyone who is in a homosexual relationship but I do not agree with the redefining of marriage for same sex couples.....and never will, as long as I live. I have nothing more to say on this, so this will be the last post to this thread. |
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So the argument ´homosexuality is wrong because the bible says it is an abomination for a man to lie with a man´ is a complete non argument. If you argue for any one phrase from the bible, you have to argue for them all. It´s the ´Good Book´. Not the ´Good Book in parts´ :rolleyes: |
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For goodness sake. Grow up!
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Is it because you're devoutly religious and you're not making yourself clear? OR Is it because you're an atheist and not making yourself clear? Either way, no need to get upset. :) |
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Looks like something out of "My big fat Gypo whatever" to me, not pretty, well, pretty awful maybe. :)
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I've calmed down now. I just felt that you were deliberately misunderstanding what I was trying to say. It annoys me when some Christians say a thing is wrong because it says so in the bible. My point was that the bible says a lot of things that are totally ridiculous, and in answer to a question I gave a number of examples. I didn't quote selectively to prove a moral point of view. I quoted selectively to show that you can't use bible quotes to prove a moral point. Is that clearer? :confused::confused::confused: Probably not ! |
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If you have a gay marriage it looks as though you might not be able to get divorced, because divorce laws aren't being changed to accommodate it.
Gay marriage: divorces over adultery face legal challenge - Telegraph " Gay partners who have an affair with someone of the same sex will not be able to use adultery as grounds for divorce because the legal definition involves intercourse between a man and a woman. Under the government’s plans, same-sex couples will also be unable to annul their marriages on the basis of non-consummation, for similar reasons. However, heterosexual married couples will continue to be able to use adultery and non-consummation as grounds for divorce, a discrepancy which lawyers said amounted to “clear discrimination”. The Government has suggested that creating an equivalent of adultery and non-consummation for same-sex relationships would change the law “unnecessarily”. " |
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Also if one of the gay partners has sex with a member of any other sex than their own, can they then be divorced on the grounds of 'adultery'? Like they used to say on this comedy, Confused? You will be! Soap (TV comedy) closing credits - YouTube |
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Interesting that a US Republican senator, previously vehemently opposed to same sex marriage, has now changed his tune because his son is gay.
BBC News - US Republican Senator Rob Portman favours gay unions Maybe a law should be introduced whereby the only people able to pontificate in public about the evils of same sex marriage should be those who can provide written proof that one of their offspring is gay, and STILL they think same sex marriage is wrong. |
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