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Gordon Booth 14-02-2018 16:51
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Margaret, I'm so glad you decided to put your loss on a thread. Not everyone reads the blogs and I'm sure a lot on Accyweb will want to share their thoughts on your loss.
It must have left a big hole in your life, you were so close to your mother.
My thoughts are with you.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 18:03
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stevie R (Post 1208824)
I knew it was the British Empire Medal Margaret,but it could have been Best Ever Mum.
She was indeed that.
I have almost picked the phone up to remind her of TV programs that I know she would enjoy at least three times in the past week...And I cannot bear to delete her number from my phone.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 18:06
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gordon Booth (Post 1208826)
Margaret, Not everyone reads the blogs




It must have left a big hole in your life, you were so close to your mother.
My thoughts are with you.
Yes, I can feel the draught already.
I would encourage everyone to read my blogs....it would put a smile on their chops...well, most of them would.

cashman 14-02-2018 18:21
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I just read an interesting quote "Its not what you have in your life, its who you have in your life that matters" I reckon that very much applied to you Margaret.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 18:26
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
I don't know where she is.
I know not where she's gone.
I only hope where e're it is, there's
Sea and sand and sun.
I hope there are flowers that bloom,
And birds that sing in trees,
I hope there is soft music,
Drifting on the breeze.
I only know she is not lost,
In fact I think she's found...
And I must not shed salty tears
Because she's not around.

She sits in the departure lounge,
Her boarding pass in hand.
Flying Celestial Airways
Out to the Promised land.
Those she love are waiting,
All gathered in a crowd.
They cannot wait to greet her
They're happy and they are proud
The arrivals door will open
They'll shout, they'll clap and cheer.
They will fling their arms around her....
Saying 'Dorothy is here!'

These are two verses that I composed to send to family members to comfort them.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 18:31
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by cashman (Post 1208830)
I just read an interesting quote "Its not what you have in your life, its who you have in your life that matters" I reckon that very much applied to you Margaret.
I think that quote is absolutely spot on...and yes, my riches are not stored in the bank, but in my heart.

Retlaw 14-02-2018 19:08
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington (Post 1208781)
I have said in the past that Accyweb feels like my family....so it is with great sadness that I have to tell you that Dorothy(my Mum) an amazing and well loved lady died on The 5th of February.

Mum was Caretaker of Woodnook St Mary's in Belfield Road, so many of those who went to that school will know her.
I know that many of you who read my blogs will have read of our adventures and escapades...so may feel some connection

Mum specified before she died that there was to be no obituary in the local press...she promised she would haunt me if I did not follow her wishes.
I am hoping that Accyweb does not count.

Mum was a feisty, independent lady of indomitable spirit.
I have done my best to keep her going for as long as possible, but life had just become so wearisome, she was so tired and there was little in life that gave her joy in those last couple of weeks.
So she put her earthly burden down and left us.
Even in death she thought of others....she left her earthly overcoat to be unpicked by medical students...her lining to be investigated so that others may learn.

It made me smile(just a little) to find out last Thursday that Mum, at the age of 90 had got a place at Liverpool University in the medical faculty.

Mum,you were bloody amazing...and if I can be one tenth as good as you have been I will be happy.
Night night, God Bless.
Aw eck Margaret, I'v just told Imelda, she sends her condolences, your mum was well loved & liked by all. Imelda and your um worked together every day for years, I only met your mum a couple of times an even this crusty owd sod liked your mum.

Exile on Spencer St 14-02-2018 19:13
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Sorry for your loss, Margaret. Your mum will be missed but never forgotten.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 19:35
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Thank you both of you.
She was a very special person who touched many lives.

dotti34 14-02-2018 20:15
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
What a wonderful tribute to your mother, Margaret. Take comfort from the messages sent to you by the Accrington Web family at this very sad time, knowing that they really do care.

Take comfort also in the knowledge that you did all you could for your mother, you took such good care of her and gave her so much of your time. Now take some time for yourself. My thoughts are with you.

Margaret Pilkington 14-02-2018 20:33
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Thank you Dorothy for your words of encouragement.
There is still much to do...and there will come a time when all that is ravelled is knitted up...and I will have time on my hands...the time I spent doing things for Ma.
At present, I am grateful for the distractions that doing things to tie up MA's affairs takes up.
I will take time when it is all done and dusted.
M x

Rowlf 14-02-2018 21:34
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Margaret your poems are beautiful. I am sure they have been a comfort to your family.
When my dad passed away a Commodore in the Royal Navy sent me the following poem which gave me comfort. Mt dad had been in the navy.
What is dying?
A ship sail and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon
and someone by my side says 'She is gone'. Gone where ?
Gone from my sight that is all. She is just as large as when I saw her.
The dimimished size and total loss of sight is in me not in her
And just at that moment when someone says 'She is gone.'
There are others who are watching her coming and other voices
take up the glad shout 'There she comes'
And that is dying.

Not as personal as your verses but the same sentiment.

Wynonie Harris 15-02-2018 01:28
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
So sorry to hear of your loss, Margaret. Many condolences to you and your family.

Margaret Pilkington 15-02-2018 03:22
Re: Dorothy Duxbury B.E.M.
 
Rowlf...yes...I have seen that poem too. it was written by a Bishop(whose name escapes me just now) and it is a paraphrase of that.
It was what Ma believed would happen.

Thank you Steve...I thought Ma was invincible.
When she was lying at the bottom of the stairs with a fracture hip...she kept telling the ambulance lads that 'There's nowt wrong wi' me...it's not broken'....and initially refusing pain relief...well, until we tried to move her that is.
My life is going to be poorer for her not being there...but she left me a rich legacy...not in money, but in memories and experiences.

walker 15-02-2018 15:41
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Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing a little of your mum with us through your blogs.


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