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Maybe in most cases, but when I was a kid I lived up the top of Fielding Lane and on a farm near us lived a farmer, his wife and thier two sons. One son was your typical strapping farm lad, the other, younger son was as gay as a lord. My mum was friends with the farmers wife and she told her that when the second son was born she really wanted a girl and for the first few years of his life he was basically brought up as a girl even to the point of wearing dresses and playing with girls toys. Could be just a coincidence but I'm not so sure.

See.

Genetics.

Some are born dimmer than others.

:rolleyes:
 
Maybe in most cases, but when I was a kid I lived up the top of Fielding Lane and on a farm near us lived a farmer, his wife and thier two sons. One son was your typical strapping farm lad, the other, younger son was as gay as a lord. My mum was friends with the farmers wife and she told her that when the second son was born she really wanted a girl and for the first few years of his life he was basically brought up as a girl even to the point of wearing dresses and playing with girls toys. Could be just a coincidence but I'm not so sure.
If the lad was gay he was born gay steve, no two ways about it
 
Maybe in most cases, but when I was a kid I lived up the top of Fielding Lane and on a farm near us lived a farmer, his wife and thier two sons. One son was your typical strapping farm lad, the other, younger son was as gay as a lord. My mum was friends with the farmers wife and she told her that when the second son was born she really wanted a girl and for the first few years of his life he was basically brought up as a girl even to the point of wearing dresses and playing with girls toys. Could be just a coincidence but I'm not so sure.

I take it you haven't ever travelled much further than Fielding Lane?

There are plenty of tattooed, knuckle scraping, rugby playing, gay men, who wouldn't know a scatter cushion if you hit him on the head with it.

Just as there are many totally straight, weak little men, who love nothing better than shopping with their wives for just the right shade of lilac potpourri.
 
Maybe in most cases, but when I was a kid I lived up the top of Fielding Lane and on a farm near us lived a farmer, his wife and thier two sons. One son was your typical strapping farm lad, the other, younger son was as gay as a lord. My mum was friends with the farmers wife and she told her that when the second son was born she really wanted a girl and for the first few years of his life he was basically brought up as a girl even to the point of wearing dresses and playing with girls toys. Could be just a coincidence but I'm not so sure.

What was your mother hoping for?

Disappointment can be such a terrible burden.

:rolleyes:
 
I take it you haven't ever travelled much further than Fielding Lane?

There are plenty of tattooed, knuckle scraping, rugby playing, gay men, who wouldn't know a scatter cushion if you hit him on the head with it.

Just as there are many totally straight, weak little men, who love nothing better than shopping with their wives for just the right shade of lilac potpourri.
Ya Ken Pilling the manager at the Merchants in Blackburn were no wall flower Rindi;)
 
I'm not so sure, I think any behaviour can be influenced.

Your opinion, and you're entitled to it.

Personally, when I don't have the foggiest idea about something, the politics of the Middle East, long division, the life cycle of the May fly, I tend to keep my opinions to myself.

Keeping my gob firmly shut means I don't risk looking like an idiot in public.
 
Your opinion, and you're entitled to it.

Personally, when I don't have the foggiest idea about something, the politics of the Middle East, long division, the life cycle of the May fly, I tend to keep my opinions to myself.

Keeping my gob firmly shut means I don't risk looking like an idiot in public.
Just adding my four penneth - we'll agree to disagree then...
 
Your opinion, and you're entitled to it.

Personally, when I don't have the foggiest idea about something, the politics of the Middle East, long division, the life cycle of the May fly, I tend to keep my opinions to myself.

Keeping my gob firmly shut means I don't risk looking like an idiot in public.

So what age were you, when you made the conscious choice as to whether you were going to be attracted to males, or females?

It's interesting.

Most people already know. Almost as if it's built in to who you are as a person.

You're in a minority, having a choice.

Men, or women.

Most people already know, and have no choice..

Perhaps it's just bisexuals who get to decide.
 
What I've found out, on life's long journey, is that most totally straight men couldn't give a toss about gay men.

Confident as they are in their own sexuality, and certainly not threatened by it, and who secretly think 'good, more women for me!'

It's usually the ones who jump up and down, shouting about it not being 'normal', who usually have a deep seated desire to bend over, and take it like a beach.

:rolleyes:
 
So what age were you, when you made the conscious choice as to whether you were going to be attracted to males, or females?

It's interesting.

Most people already know. Almost as if it's built in to who you are as a person.

You're in a minority, having a choice.

Men, or women.

Most people already know, and have no choice..

Perhaps it's just bisexuals who get to decide.
There must be some cases, however small a percentage, where outside influences have a bearing on whether someone's gay or not. But as you say I'm no expert.
 
There must be some cases, however small a percentage, where outside influences have a bearing on whether someone's gay or not. But as you say I'm no expert.

Perhaps there is.

Those born 50/50 bisexual.

They'll get a choice.

You never told us.

At what age did you decide on the gender you were going to be attracted to?
 
I think you dont make a conscious decision to fancy men or women it just happens , putting dresses on boys doesnt make them gay as the saying goes just because you were born in a stable does not make you a horse.i also think just because childrens parents are same sex it wont make their kids gay, they either are already or not , i can say from knowing a same sex couple who have brought up a son he is 100% hetro and he lived with his dad and his partner from being about 2 years old.
 
as gay as a lord.

Which Lord?

Nelson, our greatest navel hero?

Archer, prossy visiting politican?

Byron, 'bad, mad, and dangerous to know', from whom no gentleman's daughter was safe from?

Lord Alan Sugar?

As you weren't specific enough....you're fired.
 
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