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well thats just terrible
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I’ll refrain from any rant until whatever the shop assistant said gets published. The story as it appears in the link seems a bit one-sided, maybe there is a bit of “Headline Grabbing” taking place.
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To be honest.. I can believe it though..
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I didn't know M & S sold books.
I'll have to pop a kiddies Bible into my basket the next time I go in to buy my bacon, and other non-Halal goodies.:D |
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thats another inch of our country taken from beneath our feet :rolleyes::rolleyes:
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Not gonna get drawn into this one, I'm in a good mood and don't want it changing :)
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I'm going to have a little fume in the corner and behave myself for a change, or maybe go to garinda's special needs thread and have a row with one or two people. humph!!
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A Christian Country, selling Christian books telling Bible stories…..unclean?
But it’s alright to murder young and old women alike in the name of so called Honour. Unclean? This person may be a Muslim, had she been Catholic she would have been named and shamed and most likely dismissed……. Unclean? My arse. |
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My gut feeling says this is just another media warbling; most likely sensationalising the story and giving the BNP more ammo.
If it is completely as the paper reports - then of course the Muslim girl is a misguided idiot and should be sacked & prosecuted for creating civil unrest. I do reserve my cynicism however. |
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If this case goes to court it would be interesting for me because I've been called up for jury service AGAIN, I'm sure I would listen to all the evidence and my judgement would be based purely on the facts of the case.
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The shop assistant's version of the story is that she didn't want to touch the book as her hands were not clean.
Not actually having been there I can't say who is telling the truth but if that was indeed what she did say then maybe the woman just got the wrong end of the stick. I don't know of any reason why a Muslim would call Bible stories 'unclean'. They supposedly respect all holy books. |
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its very difficult to take a press story as gospel, if it does turn out to be i will be slavering, until then i reserve opinion.:cool:
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We can't tar all Muslims because of this one silly fundamenalist cow, but would she also not have a problem stuffing a bikini in a bag, never mind any of the other non-Islamic stuff they sell at Marks and Sparks?
I think she should pack up her hijab and her burqas and go and live in Mecca. That's if they have an M & S there, with all it's associated benefits, pensions, etc. |
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but she would have been touching FOOD with un-clean hands whilst serving others presumably, :confused::confused: |
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I'm sure my friend once mentioned something similar to this, i'm sure she said in her family the women werent allowed to touch their holy books, only the men. It might be different in different muslim families but im pretty sure there is something about women touching holy books that they believe. |
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and a book has got a protective plastic/celophane coating!!! wheres the diff :confused::confused: |
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Like how you cant touch the host with anything but your tongue if your catholic i guess. Just one of the rules. She doesn't mean literally unclean I imagine, just metaphorically speaking. |
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c of e but i dont necessarily follow it, |
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I mean, catholics eating what they feel is the body and blood of christ must be odd to someone, and maybe its because catholics have odd ideas that i'm willing to understand someone elses odd ideas too. I dont know. |
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So many white people are racist and have problems with foreigners to the point of it being close to xenophobia yet its never in the media, only when we feel the person is playing the race card and then it looks bad on the victim still. Infact the only thing i can ever recall us caring about in regards to race hate from whites and that was when prince harry wore the nazi costume, and that was more likely due to the fact he was a royal, not the costume. The media is just loads of scandal and lies most of the time. I dont think it matters if she refused to touch the book or not, the main point is is that if she refused to because of her religious beliefs, she did it out of respect for a religion native to our own country, not her own, and I think its nice that she could show that kind of respect even if it caused a problem. I've also found that it seems they cant touch the quran or read it whilst they are menstruating, perhaps this is what she meant... |
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well your going on about religion blah di blah, iv'e allways read/heard/ been told, that muslim woman were not allowed to work, and that it was their place to be at home whilst the man went out to work !!
if so and she was that religious....WHY is she working ?? :confused: just a thought...cant pick and choose as to what you beleive in its all or nothing surely !!! |
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For example, catholics are considering homosexual priests now, but abortion is still not acceptable. I think its an equality thing mainly. Men allow and accept women to work, particularly as their are fundamental rights that are protected, but some beliefs are just kept and not touching a holy book is one of them, its hardly hurt anyone! |
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Anyway I am going to go now, i have a lecture at 9am :(
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because that it what i have been brought up as, i used to go to church untill i started growing up and it kinda left me !!! im not saying i dont know anything just not fully so im not going to start harping on about it.... |
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what a load of b*ll**ks!!
what next they wont touch bacon at the checkout at asda?.......or as that one already been done:rolleyes: |
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You seem to be the only person who has got hold of the right end of this particular stick Blazey. In her eyes it wouldn't be the book that was unclean. She was showing respect to the holy book by not wishing to defile it.Not because her hands were mucky dirty but because for some reason she deemed herself to be unclean. Perhaps she had just previously packed that bikini Garinda referred to, or perhaps she was menstruating. Whatever the reason, it was herself she regarded as not worthy of handling the religious book. The customer herself admitted that the woman didn't actually say to her that the book was unclean. She heard the word being said (a word which normally is only used to refer to symbolic cleanliness) and then she saw the hijab and drew her own conclusions that a Muslim was calling the Bible unclean. I don't believe that the Bible is seen by Muslims as anything unclean but rather as something to be revered and respected which is exactly what she was doing. We demand that Muslims show respect to other religions and then when one does she is hauled over the coals for it and accused of being racist and offensive. :rolleyes: |
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it wasn't a holy book ie: a bible....it was a book of bible stories !!! BIG differance !!:rolleyes::rolleyes: |
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Disgusting behaviour. Absolutely disgusting. Despite the friendly embracement of multi-cultural society Britain has given people, there are stiil idiots like this about. No wonder racial tension is so much of a problem.
Can you imagine if a Christian had said the same think to someone purchasing a book of a different faith? Appalled. :mad: |
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Mrs Friday, 69, said: “The young lady was absolutely fine with the other stuff I was buying but when it came to the Bible she refused to touch it and asked me to put it in the shopping bag myself.
"She turned to another worker and said something about being unclean and at first I thought she was referring to a skirt I was buying and that there was a mark on it. Then she asked me to put the Bible in my shopping bag myself. Muslim M&S worker 'refused to touch Bible' - Telegraph |
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Idiotic Britain!! They don't allow gambling but do the lottery? They are against alcohol but sell it in their corner shops? And their women are treated as second class citizens!! Equality is the answer.
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Karma sent..............:) |
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Did you write that yourself darling..................:D |
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This poor girl is being slagged off because she treated a Christian book with the same respect she would show to the Koran. IMO she is owed an apology. |
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religion=the root of many a conflct |
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aye these gods have a lot to answer for:rolleyes:
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This lady was obviously distressed due the fact that the scene was played out in front of her, and she had not the courage to challenge the assistant at the time.. me, I would have gone bananas !! When accepting this job with M & S she should have been honest with her employees that there were specific items of their products (at certain times of the month :rolleyes:) when she would have difficulty serving a customer, therefore, she was dishonest accepting the job, and should be offered her P45 on the spot ! |
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would she be aware they sold bibles katex? i sure as hell wasn,t:confused: whilst i see the sense in what ya say, its hard to think they would list every product on an interview.
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People are strange, bet this assistant loved every minute of it. A chance to show her religious superiority. |
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It wasn't a prejudice! It was her showing respect for the flippin Bible! Something which is rarely done in Christian society so we just aren't used to it. It probably never occurred to the poor girl that the woman would take offence.
And no, I had no idea that M&S sold Bibles either. I'm sure they don't list all their products when they interview prospective staff. |
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You should not air your opinions in front of the customers no matter what, therefore jeopardising the sale of certain goods by affecting the feelings of the customer, and derogatory to the company that is paying your wages at the end of the day.. that is all there is to it, no matter what the issue is. ! That is way the Marks will view this incident irrespective. Could have been that they were selling Enid Blyton books again, and the assistant refused to handle it to what, in the past, the powers that be considered it bad grammar and not good for young children to read. I do not believe that the assistant was so naive not to understand that her additude would not upset the customer in a Christian country. If she is, then needs a lesson in good manners. |
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It'd be wrong to sack someone because she wouldn't touch something. What if you work in a pet shop and your quite happy to serve on the till but when your asked to handle a rat or a snake or something you fear you refuse? Shoudl you deserve to be sacked just because you dont want to touch something? Even more so when its actually out of RESPECT for something?!
Nobody in their right mind would sack her for it because she'll be dragging them through court cases for breaching her rights and it wont be pleasant. M&S arent going to suffer economically because of this instance, so why should they bother sacking her? Anyone been put off shopping at m&s because someone refused to touch a bible? Very very unlikely |
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Basically this jus shows how influencial the media is on people, and quite frankly I think its scary. |
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[QUOTE=blazey;518509]It'd be wrong to sack someone because she wouldn't touch something. What if you work in a pet shop and your quite happy to serve on the till but when your asked to handle a rat or a snake or something you fear you refuse? E]
Any company like Marks will surely have job descriptions, and if you are asked to do a task not in your job description, then every right to complain, so your above does not quite wear with me Blazey .. as would have the right to refuse. |
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But she wasn't airing an opinion. She was showing her respect for the book and the customer by not wishing to defile it. She was the one unclean (for reasons we know not) NOT the flippin book!!! |
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LOL. No, it seems not. :) |
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Anyone who has worked on a till will know that you cant just leave the till, you have to call someone else, and another employee would probably be confused and ask her what the problem is anyway and the customer will still have been made uncomfortable. As a catholic I dont see the problem in her telling the customer she couldn't touch the book. Anyone with any intelligence would be able to listen and understand why the woman couldnt touch the book.
Maybe its the customers fault for not bothering to listen. Maybe she should just go to asda instead and use the self serve tills. Problem solved. |
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Look at something similar but on a practical rather than spiritual level.
Imagine you go into a shop to make several purchases. One of the items you wish to buy is a spotless white tablecloth. The shop assistant has just been weighing out 5lb of spuds and has soil on her hands. She could simply pick up your table cloth and get dirty fingerprints on it but what the heck it's her job and she's supposed to put the thing in a bag for you. Or she could ask you to put it in a bag yourself as she doesn't wish to mark it with her grubby hands. You can see the soil on her hands, you understand what she means so you thank her for being considerate. Now look at the possibility where there isn't a mucky spud in sight but this young lass knows she has sweaty hands and fears she could leave a nasty greasy mark on your tablecloth. She asks you to put it in a bag yourself but you see no reason why she shouldn't do it. You catch the word 'greasy' or 'sweaty' and are not sure what she means but instead of asking you grudgingly put the cloth in the bag - but not having queried why you mull over this later and it becomes a grievance that the girl perhaps called you something insulting and made you serve yourself. Suddenly this shop assistant whose only concern was not to mark your lovely white table cloth with her sweaty, greasy hands has become a nasty insolent individual who wouldn't do her job properly, has insulted you and deserves to be sacked. |
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Why does this have to be thought of with a business head? Business doesn't come into peoples personal feelings and beliefs. There'd be just as much fuss if this had been a school girl.
What would have happened if it had been a catholic refusing to touch the qu'ran? The muslims wouldn't be going mad, they'd understand and think it brilliant that it can be respected by everyone in such a way, and if they took it badly we'd be causing such a huge fuss about it and voting BNP. This thread disgusts me so i'm not even going to reply again to it. |
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I think this misunderstanding is because we are not used to the idea of showing deference and respect to a book. I think Jews would understand it because they have the same sort of attitude towards the scrolls read in a synagogue. They have special pointer things to touch them with so they don't use their fingers.
The customer herself actually says that she heard the girls say the word unclean but at first didn't know what she meant and then saw her headdress and the Bible and drew a conclusion. |
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I would not understand why this woman would not be able to touch the book Blazey (just paper and print).. being an avid atheist .. so guess my IQ is about 78 at mo. :D |
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The title of this thread should actually be 'unclean muslim refuses to touch Bible'
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It doesn't actually sound like she did make a fuss. She did serve the woman, just asked her to pick up the book. Calling another member of staff over to do it (which may well have caused a delay and the queue behind to become impatient) would have been making far more of a fuss.
It seems that the majority of people in this thread are so determined to find fault with the girl that they cannot even attempt to see what actually happened and why. |
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In my second example I purposely illustrated muck which couldn't be seen. But I wonder if you actually bothered to read it all. :bangh8:
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How many people who have complained about this even care about the bible or what it means? |
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Goodnight everyone .. good debate ..:) |
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The Bible means a lot to me. However, I don't physically treat it the same way a devout Muslim would treat the Koran. Mine is rather tatty with worn crumpled pages. It has colour coded highlights in pencil crayon on numerous pages with hand written notes in the margins. It tends to get plonked down anywhere in the house and sometimes I spend ages wondering where the heck I last put it. It's the written content which matters to me not the actual printed and bound volume itself.
Having said that though, I appreciate when someone else from another faith treats what is my 'holy book' with the same respect and reverence they would treat their own 'holy book' and I can understand where they are coming from in doing this - showing respect for me and my faith. For this girl to have it thrown back at her and be accused of the exact opposite of what she was doing just shows the ignorance of her accusers. M&S actually apologised to the shopper for any distress caused before they had even investigated the incident. I personally believe it's a case of the newspapers hearing one side of a story, not checking it out fully but printing a sensational headline anyway because. as this thread shows. people just love an excuse to complain about Muslims. I find that very sad. |
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Daily Mail!!!!! Enough said! |
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It was also in the Express and that was an even worse headline. No matter what the outcome of M&S questioning their staff I doubt very much we'd ever see a headline along the lines of "Muslim shop assistant wronged by false accusation from racist grannie"
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IT WASNT A BIBLE FFS...sorry had to shout as you dont seem to be getting this fact...it was a book of bible stories !!!! jeeeeeees...:rolleyes::rolleyes: |
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It had the word 'Bible' on the cover. I have to go out but I'll look for the article later which quoted what the shopper said and how she drew her conclusion, which coukld quite easily have been the wrong one.
Unfortunately I have to agree with you that my opinion seems to be the minority one and I find it very sad that the majority assume that it's a Muslim snub of Christianity. :( |
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ok so every newspaper that has reported this story has the word " bible " on it, now i dont know if they sell papers at marks' but if they do, would she refuse to sell the papers too !!!! what a load of bulldung !!! |
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Willow, I think what some people are getting at is the fact that it was not a bible.
Some are also wondering if you can give us a link to the article which has made you of the opinion that it was the M&S employee who was referring to herself as being “dirty” in some respect. :) |
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As you say Cashy, this is all about 'nowt'...the media (it isn't just the Mail...it was reported in most of the papers) have yet again whipped up a frenzy about something that could have been quite easily sorted.....but No as usual, there has to be mud slung.
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and you know exactly what about me :confused:...dont come on here slagging me off about respecing things when you dont even know me !!! if you ever did get to know me then i would accept your words, untill then, lets not make this personal eh !! just becaue im expressing my opinion and it goes against one of your own !!! |
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I think Willow & Cashman were just making the point that the checkout bird saw the word 'Bible' and jumped to the conclusion that it was the Holy Bible and reacted accordingly.
I still believe what I said originally however. It's just a sensationalised tabloid warbling. |
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I've had a scout around the web for all the different stories about this and it would appear that it first appeared in the Telegraph and The Daily Mail - all the other papers and websites are reporting what they first read in the Mail, actually quoting that as their source in some cases.
The Mail and the Telegraph do report it slightly differently. The Mail sensationally says that she refused to serve the woman, this is clearly not the case as she was happy to serve her just not touch the book and put it into the bag. The Telegraph's wording is slightly different about the 'unclean' part and I'm tempted to agree with Willow on this one. Muslim women are seen as 'unclean' when they are menstuating therefore, she would not have wanted to touch her holy book or any other holy book at that time. The fact that this story was first run in the Mail and Telegraph leads me to believe that the odds of the report being skewed are quite high! |
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To be honest id take the whole story with a salt mine full of salt. It is in the end published by The Hate Mail...oops sorry i mean the Daily Mail, a paper that once supported Hitler.
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As for the story, its definately been manipulated to get a particular reaction, and the facts clearly are goig to have been completely different to what has been printed. |
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just been reading this thread and it is interesting ... however i am not bothered who was right or wrong- but am wondering if M&S still has strong Jewish roots ?
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