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Wasn't it the fact that most of the women got their tits out ?

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That was said too, as well as we looked red faced.

Sounds like a good night out to me.:D

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They were showing their bras :p

And i'm not saying I dont jump to conclusions either, but the point is, those who preach about it also do it as well :p

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Don't ever go to Manumission in Ibizia.

You're lucky if you see anyone wearing as much as a bra.:rolleyes:

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I went to a meet and didn't see anything. Maybe they waited until I went home :D

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I wouldn't go to Ibiza fullstop.

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LOL....you dont half talk sh*t sometimes, i couldnt care less if ya boyfriend was gay or not, where did you get that idea from....lol
i dont go to your mums anymore because the thought of you being there!!
now go back to playing with your dollys and grow up!

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Will you two stop flirting please.

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I'm at uni now, i'm only there during the holidays :rolleyes:

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This thread, and the issues people have with you, is nothing to do with jumping to conclusions, it is about generalising and judging on first appearances. Your tsatement of fat people annoying you was out of order, and the sooner you hold your hand up to that one, the better!

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And then there are those annoying folks who feel they have to respond to absolutely everything. Trying to bring one's comments down by sheer idiocy or a merely incompassionate/uncalled for "moan!":p

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Have to agree. How about it Blazey?

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agreed, Difficult one that though, you dont need brains its common sense n decency thats required.;)

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sorry it double posted

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Why is it out of order? If it is what she thinks then its up to her. Its only like me saying I hate it when I am stuck in a queue next to some dirty smelly person who probably hasn't washed for months, like I was in Asda the other day. So now am I a bad person for calling people who don't wash?

We all have likes and dislikes. Who says one persons has to be the same as the nexts?

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i'll tell ya why neil, cos a dirty smelly person who aint washed in supermarket has NO excuse.

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Even though I think she (Blazey) can be a bit ditz at times (after all who else would ask on Accy web if anyone had experience about using sex organ enlargement medication for their 'suggested at' gay boy-friend) .
The girl has a right to her opinions , lets face it sizism is a big problem , who can honestly say they have never sat at red light and watched with a smirk as a tubby has tried to make to the other side before the light changed .
I just thank God I am not one who has to teach her at university :D :D

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I am not going to apologise for finding fat people annoying, whether they have an 'excuse' for being fat or not, its still annoying and horrible.

Paedophiles have been given a medical excuse, do you like them more, tolerate them any more than before? Most of you have been ranting on about someone who had sex with a 14yr old for days, should you tolerate him because he has a medical 'excuse' if he's dubbed a paedophile? No, alot of you would say you hate him and want him dead. I didn't say I wanted fat people dead, i said I would rather they weren't fat because its unsightly.

I am entitled to my own opinion, and if it offends people, then who cares? Life is full of things that offend, its not something you can easily avoid unless you lock yourself in your house and do nothing at all. I'm not going to change my viewpoint just to make people happy, that would make me fake and untrue to myself. How many of you are fake just to satisfy others I wonder? Because right now it seems that there are very few on this forum who are true enough to themselves to say what they think rather than saying 'i agree with...(fill in the gap with the forums favourite members username)' so you wont get shot down.

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Though you had a crying hissy fit, after your pet lizard died.

After I said was that every cloud has a silver lining, and posted a picture of a handbag. Albeit a lizard skin handbag.

In my opinion, that was funny.

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Children who don't want to get burnt, shouldn't play with fire...in my opinion.:D

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I get annoyed at being brought into peoples arguments when the argument has nothing to do with me and I dont even want to get involved :hitting8:

I also get annoyed when people tell me not to look at threads on forums because its obvious thats going to make me take a peep :rolleyes:

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[quote=Neil;509039]Why is it out of order? If it is what she thinks then its up to her. Its only like me saying I hate it when I am stuck in a queue next to some dirty smelly person who probably hasn't washed for months, like I was in Asda the other day. So now am I a bad person for calling people who don't wash?

Not the same thing at all. Blazey stated she hates fat people. The equivalent would be 'i hate smelly people', where i'm sure all of us have been a bit 'whiffy' at some point in our lives. My point is its a huge generalistaion without going into the background of why.

And Blazey, I, for one, dont change my opinion to fit in with the crowd. If I dont agree with someone on here, I'm not scared of arguing the point with my thoughts, and listening to other opinions. If people agree with me great, if they come up with a valid argument, I may agree with them, surely thats the point of this kind of forum.

Its all too easy to hide behind a computer screen making sly comments that can be aimed at certain members of the forum. I'm not sure if you are very clever, or extremely stupid and insensitive.

A womans weight, especially to those that have been slimmer in the past, is a very touchy subject, and you have hit upon these sensitivities to attack every person that is worried about their appearance. Who are you to judge them? And why do you feel the need to in the first place? You knew when you typed your statement exactly the reaction you would have. Why do it?

And to state paedophaelia is a medical condition is probably the weakest argument you have come out with so far. No one can explain why a paedophile does what he does, but it certainly cannot be used in an debate such as this one. A paedophile hurts and interferes with the innocence of youth, are saying that is the same with people with a weight problem? I would imagine for people that have been subject to sexual abuse as a minor, that statement in itself is extremely offensive and upsetting.

And if you are looking for a career in law, I think you should start opening your eyes a little more to let in the wider picture as oopose to seeing everything in black and white.

At the end of the day Blazey, you have come out with a ludicrous statement, purpely to cause upset and reaction. Good luck in your mission to battle the world

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I think that just about sums it up.

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it would perhaps do blazey some good if the shoe was on the other foot
since putting on weight because of heart medication my wife (sue)
believe herself to be fat and has lost quite a bit of confidence
no amount of love and affection from myself helps
so imagine blazey how it feels to be hated by some one youve
never spoken to let alone met
give it a rest girl :(:(

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So far I have avoided replying to this post, however I think I should give Blazey the benefit of my wisdom which only comes through age and life experience.

Up to having my son I was 8st 8lb and a size 8, even after having my son I was one of the lucky ones who shed my baby weight easily. I have always eaten healthily and exercised at least 3 times a week, that is until I had an accident 4 years ago in which I suffered a permanent trapped nerve in my neck and 4 prolapsed discs in my lumbar spine. Although I still eat healthily, my disabilities hinder me from doing my step aerobics, playing sports and lifting weights. Because I am not as active as I once was - I am now classed as overweight. I could use my accident as an excuse to do nothing, eat more and accept that I have limitations, however I refuse to do that, I constantly push myself to try even through severe pain and discomfort. So do you really hate me for being fat or do I even deserve your hatred?

At the age of 18, I was very much like Blazey, said exactly what I thought without even realising the impact it has on others, and the hurt & anger it causes. I also detested fat people and believed that it was all their own fault for eating rubbish and not exercising! I only realized how hurtful this comment was when I heard someone say a similar thing in a room full of my relatives of which probably half were overweight, it is surprising how your own attitude changes when you are defending people that you love and you notice how visibly hurt & upset they were by the comment made.

Blazey as you go through life you will realise that not everyone can be taken at face value, older relatives, friends & colleagues give you the benefit of their advice but you think you know better even though you are very inexperienced in life in general. I was always told I had an answer or an excuse for everything - as you get older the realisation dawns on you that the people who challenged you were in the most part correct and that the majority of the advice they gave you was really for your own good.

I lost a few jobs in my youth for being lippy & not knowing when to keep the quips to myself, I also shot myself in the foot so many times at interviews and lost friends because of my so-called honesty and I'll say what I think attitude. Like you, I also threw arguments back like 'you did this or you said that or you're a hypocrite' to try and justify my own poor behaviour or thoughtlessness, I always said that I didn't care what others thought of me, they didn't matter - I was a complete & utter spoilt selfish brat and am now thoroughly ashamed of my behaviour and some of the ignorant comments I made.

Before I make any comments or jump to conclusions I always try to stop & think about what I'm trying to say, although sometimes I admit that I still can't help myself. However, I now have the humility to acknowledge when I am wrong and apologise for any offence caused. If you had really thought or listened to what people have said to you in this thread I would expect that you would have the maturity to at least apologise to those you offended and post a coherant explanation of your original statement - For example - I'm sorry my original post came across wrong what I meant to say is I hate people who over-eat, don't exercise and do nothing about it, then go on TV expecting sympathy or drain NHS resources. To me this is a valid statement and a legitimate argument and I don't think anyone could take offense to that.

You do have the right to express your opinion - I just think you could show some thought for others and choose your words more carefully. Always remember that you alone are responsible for your words and actions and that both have consequences not only for others but for yourself too.

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Life story... yawn...

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prat



nuff said

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have you only just realised that? lol

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lmao flashy- sorry am slow on the uptake,

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Onlyme you should realise my job here is to wind people up sometimes thats all.

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If people on here are deeply affected by any views that I express then they have touched my heart, I didn't realised my opinion mattered so much to them. I will keep this is mind next time I say I hate someone who I haven't met.

I shall say I love everyone instead :) Much nicer. I love you all on accyweb, even the fat members. You bring happiness and sunshine into my life.

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I do, and you do souch a good job as well ;)



To be honest Blazey, I hold my hand up. You may actually be right in that it is possible to dislike someone that you have never met.

You have taught me that, so thank you

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Well you dont have to meet someone to hate them, even if it is hate in the loosest sense of the word. People say they hate different governments, hate phone salesmen, hate loads of people whom they dont actually know.

We COULD get a nice phone call off a phone salesman, but we generally hate them without thinking of that because we relate them to negative aspects rather than positive, and I do the same with fat people. Its hardly something new in your lives :rolleyes:

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You are actually boring me now- and i didnt say hate, if you want to quote me, do so accurately

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There are lots of words between love and hate - the 2 extremes.
She just hasn't learnt or experienced many of the inbetween ones yet

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boring me too

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You are the one we are allowed to hate without upsetting others by saying we hate someone :rolleyes::D

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Theres a thread about you going to the dentist and Roy saying he hates dentists, he doesnt say what reasons, he just does. Is it unfair to hate dentists aswell? Or is that taken in the sense its meant rather than literally because it's Roy?

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Now you are being pedantic.

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Is that THE Roy - the owner/creator of this forum?
suppose that gives him 'god given' rights :D

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I think that you know what Roy means when he says he hates dentists......he doesn't actually hate the dentist, he hates having to go.......he hates having to fork out to pay for having pain inflicted on him.

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Don't let the facts get in the way of twisting a thread MP :D

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yes THE roy, the creator of the forum.

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I had a traumatic experience on the bus with a fat person, ironic that they smelt quite disgusting aswell but as someone pointed out earlier to me today, fat people often smell because they can't reach everywhere with their stubby arms and hands :) Therefore my traumatic experience has made me dislike and even use the word hate towards fat people. I do not know them all, but to me they all have they scary triple chinned face that the lady on the bus had, and I just cant bring myself to like any fat people that can be classed as clinically obese. :o

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Looks like we have found your one fault after all....... comedy :rolleyes:

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OK...so maybe he does hate the dentist........!


Blazey, it is sad that you let one experience in life colour your attitude.
I hope that life is kind to you too.

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I am being deadly serious...

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And if sitting next to a smelly fat person is your only trauma in life then you will have a charmed life......couldn't you have changed seats?

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lol, I meant what you said was correct, it was the experience he was referring to not the actual dentist in person.

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i cant believe how long this threads gone on for, i only started it because i was bored and no one else was posting :)

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My mum hates the dentist because of one experience, some women say they hate men after one bad experience, I say I hate the obese, so shoot me...

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Oh, I thought you knew something about Roy and his visit to the fang doctor that I didn't :D

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There was a bit more to it than that... but no i was on the window seat. :o

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I'm tempted to say it would be a waste of lead......but I won't.

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You still could've excused yourself and moved.

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Lead is recyclable, I'll just go and check the Hyndburn Council website and see which box/bag it goes in :D

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It wasn't the fact that they sat next to me that was the problem, besides, doing that is just rude. I wouldnt dream of standing up just because someone sat next to me.

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It is no more rude than posting on here that you hate fat people.

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Oh but it is, because that intentionally humiliates one person in front of everyone, and they'd laugh at the person. Besides, she humiliated us both anyway.

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Lmao @ emmamum, look at the trouble you caused, lol, does this mean next time you're bored, you will go for a walk up the coppice instead of posting 3 little words on here? lmao :D

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Hey hate away guys and girls because those who have met me know i dont give a tosh!

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I also get annoyed when people tell me not to look at threads on forums because its obvious thats going to make me take a peep :rolleyes:[/quote]

Tombraider, Did you click on the 'don't do it' thread? :cool:

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Well said


Blazey, its blatently obvious that you are posting cack on here just to get a reaction. I doubt the bus incident even happened

I'm now of the impression that you are doing as a child does when growing up. When they want attention, they will do whatever they can to get it, including stuff they know is wrong.

I think the phrase 'attention seeking' can now also be known as ' doing a Blazey'. Lets hope you grow out of it along with the rest of the pre-schoolers of hyndburn

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I thought it was just 'cynical' me who doubted the bus incident......
and for Blazey.....how would you have humiliated this person by moving.......unless of course you said in a very loud voice 'I'm moving because this fat person stinks'.

Garinda do I need the special needs corner?

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No, but you could help me restrain them, if needed.:D

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I'm not sure that I would want to try....not without a big dog and a bull whip :D

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alarm clocks annoy me, but everyday i i still have to get out of bed

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automated telephone systems annoy me....you know the ones where you have to punch in a number for a certain thing.......I just want to talk to a real live human being......preferably in this country too.

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I am a plumber Margaret, I can find you more lead! :pbiggrin:

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Derek, that's useful lead :D

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what annoys me is when your at the supermarket and some div walks straight in front of you!, or you are looking at the shelf for something and some other div looks at you to move....WTF...im trying to look for summat ere you muppet!!!!!!!!!

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Oh yeah! And the ones that come in 5's and 6's, with 1 trolley, and stand across the aisle with 1 shopping and the rest chatting...

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especially that derek....so annoying!!:pdry:

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hit them wi yer trolley, i do :D

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All the sofa adverts are a pain........what is it about this time of year that makes folk want to buy a new sofa?

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...and have ya noticed with these sofa adverts....they all young and have white carpets, and no kids diving all over em!:prolleyes: also not one living room looks like a terraced house living room....

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They all look like converted warehouses don't they?
The families in the adverts never have messy pets or sloppy children.......white carpets....I have a peach coloured one in my front room and it is forever wanting cleaning......it shows every flippin' mark.

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It is all the adverts saying how cheap they are, and they will keep telling us sale ends next month (until about august), I bought a suite in a sale, wanted to pay cash and they wouldn't allow it, had to leave half deposit, and take terms for the rest, (they said I could just pay the balance when it came) but they never sent a bill for the balance...quids in!

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what annoys me? huh...the crap that they put on telly over christmas that is repeated 2/3 times on itv2,3 and 4
or the crap thats on the bbc that we pay our license to watch, that really irritates me GRRRRRRR

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I haven't watched much TV......it has been such rubbish....anyway hubby has been watching the Darts...now isn't that exciting? Like watching wood warp.

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Hetty Wainthropp! How many times has that been repeated over this Christmas period?

Too many. :psad:

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LOL - and I thought your life was more readable than mine would be.

I have been watching gulls raindancing

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I think gulls and raindancing is preferable to darts....and sorry to disillusion you.....my life is quite boring too......well sometimes it is!

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I find most High Street store assistants just come up to you and say: "All right there?". Counted this six times in different shops when last in Trafford Centre. Not too intrusive though, just reply: "Yes, thanks, browsing". Seems to keep 'em happy.

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The assistants in stores are trained to approach a customer within a time limit, jjb staff were made to approach a customer within ten seconds, failure cost them thier jobs, I found this out when I complained to a manager about it, he explained that it is company policy from head office in London, the staff in a lot of retail outlets are watched by cctv to ensure that they comply.

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i remember when they used to do that in currys when it used to be in the arndale.
everytime i went in i used to time them to see how long it would take for some nosy sod to poke his/her nose in!....

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Have you been in Bargains4U yet in ossy? Bless his heart but the lad there actually picks up stuff and asks if we want it when we go in! Bit pushy but he seems to genuinely want us to have a bargain. Makes me smile! Unlike when you know the shop keeper just wants your money, thats annoying.

I used to work in aquamania and they had the same policy, and funnily enough when I go in now I dont get treated to the same customer service that I had to give. My boyfriend and I went in to buy something and we were stood for 15 minutes waiting to be served. Better to be nagged sometimes than to not get any service at all!

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Perhaps the staff thought you or your boyfriend were a little overweight.:D:D

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leave ittttttttt

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yeah but it made me smile :rolleyes:

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had that one coming...i suppose!!....lol

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yep thats one that really bugs, at times i have picked an article off the rack n said= thank you very much, put that under yer blouse,i'm a shoplifter.;)

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I get annoyed when people tell me I don't look too well, when I am actually feeling on top of the world .. spend half my time then looking in the mirror to see what they are on about. Eventually, convince myself that I am not very well, and feel as bad as what they say I look .... :D