friends....it doesnt do what it says on the packet - Page 3

slinky · 03-05-2007, 19:38

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Originally Posted by slinky

I have 2 or 3 very very good friends who I know would move heaven and earth for me, an I would do it for them too. These are the only people that would hurt me if I ever found out they had slagged me off rather than come to me.

hmmmm ok I'm cracking up!! forget it lol

davo69 · 03-05-2007, 19:45

i have people i talk to but no friends everyone you meet in pub life soon forget you

slinky · 03-05-2007, 22:24

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Originally Posted by harwood red

I'm pretty damn sure that if you hit a major crisis your true friends would be running to your aid...unless you don't tell them about the crisis cos you don't want to bother them.....well that's usually what they shout at me for doing anyway

Hmmmmmm I'm always getting shouted at for that off my mates. I would rather listen to their problems than blurt all mine out. Then when they find out something has been wrong and I didn't tell them! I get a telling off lol.

LancYorkYankee · 04-05-2007, 15:25

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Originally Posted by slinky

The rest can shove it for all I care!! They don't like me!! then simple.....don't bloody talk to me...........as the saying goes...BOVVERED

I guess I won't be sitting at Slinky's table at the May Meet!

Very good post Flashy! Should of puit it in General Discussion so it wouldn't get lost so easily (IMO)! I certainly have faced the pain, hurt, aggrevation of people letting me down. Whether it be "friends" or family.

Itend to try to always be there for people and kinda would like the same. However, with that bloody stiff upper lip I inherited, very, very rarely does anybody know what is going on in my life or mind. So, bully on me I guess.

The VERY worst is when you do open up with something fairly intense and don't get any kind of call back, check-up, pop in visit. Can be a real heartbreaker eh? I find that being there for others helps me avoid/ignore my own problems.

As I've said many times before, Accyweb has been very good for me to open up. Hmmmm, I wonder if once I meet some of you that'll all change? I'll no longer be that mysterious Yank with the "loverly bum" (Mez's words not mine!)

Brian

panther · 04-05-2007, 15:29

lovely bum eh?

when ya gonna show it on ere

slinky · 04-05-2007, 15:35

Oh that hurt LYY........

And here's me thinking we get on great

jackyalex · 04-05-2007, 21:00

i have only 2 good friends,the rest are not friends they are just people i know,i would do anything for my mates and i know that if i needed them they would be there for me,you really need to choose your true friends carefully as it can be upsetting when 1 of your SO-called friends goes round slagging you off

LancYorkYankee · 05-05-2007, 02:06

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Originally Posted by slinky

Oh that hurt LYY........

And here's me thinking we get on great

And your cry baby whiny assed opinion would be....??

My thoughts exactly Slinks! Hey, if I can put 2 and 2 together, first ya said "I have 2 or 3 very very good friends" then ya said "The rest can shove it for all I care!!" So, can I presume from your statement that "we get on great" that I'm 1 of your 2 or 3 friends

? That is SO kind of you (or pretty sad as we've never met

)

Alright, as you all can see I've had a very long day and am winding down with a bit of help from my liquid friends . . . Carry on!

Brian

Neil · 05-05-2007, 07:22

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Originally Posted by flashytart

..and one of them is gonna get shouted at if she doesnt come over to mine soon....she never ever comes over, not seen her at my house for 4 years.............YES THATS RIGHT ...YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE

Try washing your cups for a change then

It's never nice when you finally find out you can't trust people you classed as friends. I found that out when a good friend of mine decided to start sh**ing my ex wife soonish after I had left her. That kind of stopped me being able to talk to him about what was going on

Things became awkward wife another really good friend because his girlfriend and my ex-wife became sort of friends (well his girlfriend thought they were, my ex actually never did like her but became friendly to find out what I was up to). That made me the evil man who left his wife, I am fairly sure she told him to stop talking to me.

flashy · 05-05-2007, 08:58

hmmmmm things like that are just stupid

Neil · 05-05-2007, 11:32

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Originally Posted by flashytart

hmmmmm things like that are just stupid

I know but who want's to drink out of a dirty cup?

Tinkerbelle · 05-05-2007, 11:35

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Originally Posted by Neil

I know but who want's to drink out of a dirty cup?

LOL! .....

Every time flashy comes over here for a brew I've always run out out milk ..... it's just a coincidence honestly!

Neil · 05-05-2007, 12:01

That won't work with me, I drink in black

slinky · 05-05-2007, 14:47

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Originally Posted by LancYorkYankee

My thoughts exactly Slinks! Hey, if I can put 2 and 2 together, first ya said "I have 2 or 3 very very good friends" then ya said "The rest can shove it for all I care!!" So, can I presume from your statement that "we get on great" that I'm 1 of your 2 or 3 friends

? That is SO kind of you (or pretty sad as we've never met

)

Alright, as you all can see I've had a very long day and am winding down with a bit of help from my liquid friends . . . Carry on!

Brian

Hmmmm me is thinking maybe you have too much time on your hands