My Mum - Page 6

pipinfort · 29-10-2008, 08:17

So sorry to hear of your loss........

lettie · 29-10-2008, 08:23

Sorry to hear of your loss. My condolensces go out to you and your family. Your mum was obviously a very special person who has a very loving family around her.

mrskitty · 29-10-2008, 08:24

Im sorry to hear about this forceten

flashy · 29-10-2008, 08:27

i know how the loss of a mum feels

my heart goes out to you Gail xxxxx

you'll never be over it, but it does get easier xxxxx

garinda · 29-10-2008, 08:28

I'm really very sorry to hear about your mum.

She sounded as she was very well loved, and gave a lot of love, and that's all we can ever hope for.

Lolly · 29-10-2008, 08:43

I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. xxx

Margaret Pilkington · 29-10-2008, 08:54

Sincere condolences on your sad loss.
losing someone you love is always a trial......but you can be assured that you did your very best to make your Mum comfortable in those last days of her life........she was surrounded by love, but she was tired and life held no pleasure for her. It was her time...and those of you who are left have to accept that. Remember that while anyone is alive who remembers her, talks about her with love, then her essence is still with you.
You can't see your Mum, you can't hold your mum in the physical sense.....but you can hold her in your heart....see her in your dreams and remember her when she was whole and vibrant.
Be patient, it will get easier....but it takes time.
My thoughts are with you.
M x

jaysay · 29-10-2008, 08:59

I'm so sorry to hear of your lose forceten, I don't think anyone could have done more than you have done to make your mums last few months as comfortable as possible. My deepest sympathies to you and your family

Bonnyboy · 29-10-2008, 12:17

Sorry to hear of your sad loss forceten.

pussycat · 29-10-2008, 20:36

its very hard when you loss someone that close to you , my thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time ,

magpie · 29-10-2008, 20:37

very sorry .... in my thoughts Magpie:

harwood red · 29-10-2008, 21:20

sorry to hear about your loss...may she rest in peace and pain free to watch over you I am sure with a smile

take care of yourself and those close to you and remember all the special times you have shared together

xxxxxxx

Royboy39 · 29-10-2008, 21:36

I lost my mother some 9 years ago..gladly, suddenly and without pain.
I don't mean gladly she wen't. but without pain is the main point.
I was to collect her on discharge the following morning but she did'nt make it.
My sincere condolances to you and your familly.

lindsay ormerod · 29-10-2008, 22:12

Condolences to you and your family, you are in our thoughts. x

forceten · 05-11-2008, 17:53

Thank you for all your kind words. It means alot.

I still can't come to terms with the fact that Mum has gone. Just can't believe it, and still expect her to ring me or for me to be able to go and see her. Can't explain it properly.

But I am getting signs from her that she is around me. I was having a tough time today, won't go into details, but I was very upset. I was driving, and a biker went past me, blaring out a song that you wouldn't expect a biker to be blaring out...........it was "Annies Song" my Mums favourite, and I knew then that Mum was with me, and things got better after that.