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Well did my debut at icandy tonight (last night?) And I liked it!Nice club, nice people-I want this place to do well, it's definitely not a 'sleazy' place in comparison to some places I've worked. I met some nice people there-it's given me a nice first impression. I am there next Friday too :)

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Did ya get plenty of tips sugar:D

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Yes!I was advised against wiping my butt with a broken bottle, & that men in shellsuits are rarely millionaires , despite what they say.

(I actually did get tipped well, which was a nice change (ha.Ha) from my usual club! :)

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Ya see Accy is top class:D

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Sorry but shame on you don't care if I upset anyone here at the moment but I'm sure your'e worth a lot more than getting your bits out for the lads in some backwater place like Accrington - I'd prefer you to be on the dole if I was you. I feel very strongly about this and to me if you think you aren't worth anything better than this then it's a sorry state of affairs for women in general, have some self respect for yourself. If I upset you or anyone else on this site then I apologise but I will not change my beliefs here.

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If you don't agree with it, fine, but who are you to start telling her what she should and shouldn't do, imposing your own moral beliefs on someone else? It's not illegal, so she's perfectly free to do as she pleases without high-handed censure from the likes of you. As for your sneering description of Accrington as a "backwater place" I think that perfectly illustrates your own innate snobbery.

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Soft porn is for men who lack imagination.

I suppose some women dancers regard such men as small minded prey and exploit their vulnerability for material gain.

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Oh right so first you insult the girl for earning a living, tell her to go on the dole and then you quantify it by apologising.

Have you actually seen her at work, to enable you to make such a vehement attack, or are you getting all your information from CSI Miami and Rev Kev weekly?

It's pompous and self righteous of you to attempt to impose your view of what constitutes self respect and how someone should earn a living. From the outset she has fronted up and told everyone what she does. To date she has come across as intelligent, self effacing and has not done a bad job at fitting in on this viper ridden forum.

All she is doing is the 21'st century version of Pan's People/Hot Gossip, and frankly she probably covers more of her body than most of the girls walking around town on an average friday night.

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Wow, well said Guinness

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Hmm It says on sugar's profile that she found out about accyweb at iCandy. Does that mean Accyweb are official sponsors of iCandy? ;)

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Rob, she already said she was looking for info on the net about icandy and this thread came up lol

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Sorry Anne can't agree one little bit, it is very easy for people to call others who sit on their backsides all day holding out their hands for benefits, if this lass is prepared to move over here for work, no matter what it is, we should applaud her not defile her, when I worked in the night clubs we had GoGo dancers, to me just the same as pole dancing but probably a bit more erotic, but hey the lass is pulling her finger out and working for a living congratulate her don't knock her

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although i agree with what you say jay, i can also see the the other point made, it may be legal, but anne has an issue with it morally, sure ones own moral compass must decide, thats why some people choose a career outside of the law, ie prostitution, drug dealer, burglar. if any of those things were made legal would you find it morally acceptable to do any of those activities, if it meant not receiving state handouts?

anyone working in (for the want of a better phrase) "the legal sex trade", porn,sex shop, erotic dancing,sex lines, i am sure they have heard the moral argument a thousand times, and it has to come with the territory, and you accept it or change job, you are never going to change peoples minds on this one.

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Why decry others, this girl is earning a living, yes earning a living in a totally legal licenced establishment, I'm not going to put the lass down for doing something shes obviously good at, so can't see why others should either. As for your other idea about illegal professions, these aren't going to be legalised and think your argument is false to say the least, in fact I think its an insult to this lass you even mentioning it

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then you obviously didnt understand what i was saying